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A Passive Aggressive Womens thinly veiled insults thread
05-12-2017, 07:27 PM #1
Adde All in Moderation
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Quote:They have good intentions and only want the best for their children but sometimes a little too much honesty slips into an otherwise innocent conversation. Some people call them “backhanded compliments.” Some say they are “thinly veiled” insults. Whatever you call them, some can be pretty hilarious – as long as you aren’t the target.

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05-12-2017, 07:31 PM #2
Octo Mother Superior
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My sisters and I do this all the time to each other for shits and giggles lmao.gif
05-12-2017, 08:04 PM #3
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chuckle.gif The article says "Southern mamas" but that backhanded compliment stuff is universal.

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05-13-2017, 09:11 AM #4
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(05-12-2017, 07:27 PM)Adde Wrote:  
Quote:They have good intentions and only want the best for their children but sometimes a little too much honesty slips into an otherwise innocent conversation. Some people call them “backhanded compliments.” Some say they are “thinly veiled” insults. Whatever you call them, some can be pretty hilarious – as long as you aren’t the target.

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Isn't this just the cutest little story.  13.gif

Mother's day was a week ago and now it's in the future. I mean I get the "queen of heaven" "mom" crap it's just fucking stupid. It's also not the weekend and there were too many "women" out.

Dear GOD, please send a spaceship to retrieve flesh Jesus. Thanks.
05-13-2017, 09:19 AM #5
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It's Mother's day tomorrow in Finland

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And I believe flesh Jesus left the planet already
05-13-2017, 09:23 AM #6
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(05-13-2017, 09:11 AM)Anonymous Kritter Wrote:  Mother's day was a week ago and now it's in the future.  I mean I get the "queen of heaven" "mom" crap it's just ƒükking stupid.  It's also not the weekend and there were too many "women" out.

Dear GOD, please send a spaceship to retrieve flesh Jesus.  Thanks.

So tired of hallmark holidays. It's far beyond stupid.

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05-13-2017, 11:38 AM #7
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Typical backhanded compliments around here would be "you don't sweat much for being so fat" and like my dad said to my mom when she was fishing for compliments; "you have a healthy appetite"

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05-13-2017, 02:01 PM #8
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Lived with an expert for almost a decade.

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Funny at times - makes a not-so-funny pattern of subtle abuse in the long run.
05-13-2017, 02:08 PM #9
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(05-13-2017, 02:01 PM)Accidental Stoner Wrote:  Lived with an expert for almost a decade.

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Funny at times - makes a not-so-funny pattern of subtle abuse in the long run.

Passive-aggressiveness comes in many shapes and forms for both genders and usually both people in a relationship will turn to these behaviours if there is denial of emotions/hurt/problems (don't like confrontations) and/or if there is no communication.
05-13-2017, 04:11 PM #10
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I can't believe this thread, my aunt came by a few days ago and said "I wish I was as chill as you about all the clutter."  13.gif I'm remodeling the kitchen.   gaah.gif
05-13-2017, 04:14 PM #11
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(05-13-2017, 04:11 PM)Meh Wrote:  I can't believe this thread, my aunt came by a few days ago and said "I wish I was as chill as you about all the clutter."  13.gif I'm remodeling the kitchen.   gaah.gif

You could have replied..."Haven't you sought help for your OCD yet?". Communication - no denial.
05-13-2017, 04:19 PM #12
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I would have had to explain what OCD meant, she's not the smartest kid in class, just the most insulting.
05-13-2017, 04:27 PM #13
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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I think if she does have OCD then she can't help mentioning things that bother her, which I don't think is passive aggressiveness. I recall one of my son's friends (when they were teens) who has a high level of OCD. He had to mention to me that the way I arranged my cups in my cupboard were not symmetrical with how I arranged my glasses in another cupboard. My reply? Don't you boys have anything better to do than criticize the arrangement of cups in a cupboard? I really wanted to say "Get a job".

I think passive aggressiveness is a complex problem with roots in resentment.

Irrational thoughts and their alternatives:

1. “Speaking up for oneself is wrong or abrasive.”
~Not speaking up often causes more harm than good.

https://www.sowhatireallymeant.com/artic...esentment/
05-13-2017, 06:21 PM #14
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(05-13-2017, 09:11 AM)Anonymous Kritter Wrote:  
(05-12-2017, 07:27 PM)Adde Wrote:  
Quote:They have good intentions and only want the best for their children but sometimes a little too much honesty slips into an otherwise innocent conversation. Some people call them “backhanded compliments.” Some say they are “thinly veiled” insults. Whatever you call them, some can be pretty hilarious – as long as you aren’t the target.

More: www.al.com

[Image: l6wMQjv.jpg]

[Image: PjibjzA.jpg]

[Image: EvniJOS.jpg]

Isn't this just the cutest little story.  13.gif

Mother's day was a week ago and now it's in the future.  I mean I get the "queen of heaven" "mom" crap it's just ƒükking stupid.  It's also not the weekend and there were too many "women" out.

Dear GOD, please send a spaceship to retrieve flesh Jesus.  Thanks.

what? a week ago?
i thought mothers day was tomorrow?
05-13-2017, 06:26 PM #15
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(05-13-2017, 04:27 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I think if she does have OCD then she can't help mentioning things that bother her, which I don't think is passive aggressiveness. I recall one of my son's friends (when they were teens) who has a high level of OCD. He had to mention to me that the way I arranged my cups in my cupboard were not symmetrical with how I arranged my glasses in another cupboard. My reply? Don't you boys have anything better to do than criticize the arrangement of cups in a cupboard? I really wanted to say "Get a job".

I think passive aggressiveness is a complex problem with roots in resentment.

Irrational thoughts and their alternatives:

1. “Speaking up for oneself is wrong or abrasive.”
~Not speaking up often causes more harm than good.

https://www.sowhatireallymeant.com/artic...esentment/

i have been under the impression men LIKE a women who speak up because they then know where they stand and they dont have to guess what the trouble is...

it took me years to understand men truly do not THINK the way females do
doesnt make them bad, its just different.

thank you Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus book!
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truly one of the most helpful books in existence, imo.



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