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A messed up childhood. Update.
11-29-2014, 01:39 PM #16
Octo Mother Superior
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I hope this nightmare is the end of your torment and you will find peace eventually, however difficult it is. I'm glad you have the strength and chance to do something about it, not only for yourself, but all other kids who never get the chance to call out their abusers. I wish you nothing but the best and that the scum is put away forevermore.

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11-29-2014, 02:01 PM #17
misterbumps Member
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What a horrific story and one where I hope justice is served although the scars can never truly go away. I understand now why you 'bug-out'. I had similar abuse in my childhood although nowhere near severe and from a completely different perspective but it has weighed me down for years. I would recommend therapy - one to one to begin with and then eventually group therapy. I know you probably cannot do this as you are back at the bug-out but perhaps there is help relatively near to where you live. The N.H.S is free and deals with these cases very seriously. My own experience of these services are positive not just as a user but as a worker. England is beginning to wake up to this kind of abuse and politicians are taking it seriously because they are finally consulting with medical professionals. I hope it continues. For example a new idea currently being implemented is that for every police station there will be a mental health councillor present so they can decide whether or not a criminal is sane or unwell. This is improvement I like to see.

Best of luck in Bonny Scotland. I will come visit when I get the opportunity. stay strong - you are a valuable member of a supportive on line community.

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11-29-2014, 04:11 PM #18
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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I commend you for finding the strength to come forward to stop this predator and save others from abuse and torment as it would seem he was still getting away with it up until very recent.

I too would suggest therapy because I believe you need to move through many emotional and intellectual processes to regain what was taken away from you at an early age and be at peace.

Anger always fumes within me when I think of those who prey upon children.

I will meditate to send you positive vibes and a prayer that you can find the truth that you were never to blame for what happened to you.
11-29-2014, 06:01 PM #19
golden locks Member
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I'm sorry to read about your story nodoom sad2.gif
It's a big step you have taken, in the right direction of the processing, how strong of you!! hug.gif
And i'm sure you'll find the strength to get thru it and come out on the other side of your sad story, sorry you had to go thru all that ..
11-30-2014, 04:11 AM #20
anon Incognito Anonymous
 
I am in awe of your courage and strength. You speak for all those who can't. As horrible as it is to relive, hopefully you will truly be able to close that chapter of your life when the trial is over.

Timing is everything. Now is the right time even if it doesn't feel like it. With all the Catholic church and Jimmy Savile stuff coming out, they believe you now.

What are the chances the truth would have been noted in your file and discovered by police all these years later? Your life story would make a great book or movie.

Maybe you could try writing about it all to get it out and perhaps do something with it later.

Check out Ho'oponopono to help you get through this. Infinite good vibes sent your way!


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03-26-2015, 04:14 AM #21
The Survivor Truthtard
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An update for those of you who have been following this.

The trial is set for starting on the 30th of March. I have been asked to give my evidence on the 2nd of May.

This is proving to be one of the most challenging times of my life and I am not looking forward to it.

The only thing that keeps me strong in this is knowing that the perp can be put where he belongs.

Thanks for all your thoughts and vibes.

I will let you all know how it goes.

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03-26-2015, 05:36 AM #22
ocker1 Member
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(03-26-2015, 04:14 AM)NODOOM Wrote:  An update for those of you who have been following this.

The trial is set for starting on the 30th of March. I have been asked to give my evidence on the 2nd of May.

This is proving to be one of the most challenging times of my life and I am not looking forward to it.

The only thing that keeps me strong in this is knowing that the perp can be put where he belongs.

Thanks for all your thoughts and vibes.

I will let you all know how it goes.


all the best to you, hope it all works out, and demons put to rest
03-26-2015, 08:25 AM #23
Octo Mother Superior
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Thank for the update Nodoom. Stay strong, we're behind you. hug.gif

Did you mean April 2nd or do you have to stay that long?
03-26-2015, 11:27 AM #24
The Survivor Truthtard
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(03-26-2015, 08:25 AM)Octo Wrote:  Thank for the update Nodoom. Stay strong, we're behind you. hug.gif

Did you mean April 2nd or do you have to stay that long?

Yep I meant April 2nd. Thank you for that. No I don't have to stay for the whole trial. I have been given 2 nights accommodation in what seems like a nice hotel and return train tickets from London.

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03-26-2015, 01:00 PM #25
Accidental Stoner Member
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03-26-2015, 04:20 PM #26
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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I am and will continue to send you positive, healing vibes.

You are the key, or perhaps the determining factor that will lead to removing this abuser from society. Stay strong and keep the end goal in mind.

I am surprised the police (government) didn't, or can't help you, by offering free counselling services, before, during and after this ordeal?
03-30-2015, 10:09 AM #27
The Survivor Truthtard
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(03-26-2015, 04:20 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  hug.gif

I am and will continue to send you positive, healing vibes.

You are the key, or perhaps the determining factor that will lead to removing this abuser from society. Stay strong and keep the end goal in mind.

I am surprised the police (government) didn't, or can't help you, by offering free counselling services, before, during and after this ordeal?

The end goal is what keeps me going in this case.

No help advice or anything offered. Only a hotel and food paid for 2 days!

Life is like a penny, you can spend it on what you like, but you can ONLY spend it once.


https://twitter.com/NigelLondon2014

03-30-2015, 09:57 PM #28
Accidental Stoner Member
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2 hotel days + free food?

Could be worse, eh..?

Good luck to you!
03-30-2015, 10:12 PM #29
Octo Mother Superior
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The best of luck. I hope the fucker goes down.
03-30-2015, 10:24 PM #30
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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Keep strong for the sake of justice. Good vibes coming your way.



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