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12-23-2012, 05:03 AM #16
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Surprising he's not employed by a private security firm.

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12-23-2012, 05:05 AM #17
Octo Mother Superior
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(12-23-2012, 04:57 AM)JollyRoger Wrote:  That's why I gave her the money and told her to be safe.

this was my lecture:

If you are going to be a Cop. be a GOOD cop. If you are wearing a badge, one day, the anger WILL get to you. take it from someone who was in the security field for several years. It is YOUR responsibility to uphold the law and to PROTECT others. If someone is being falsely accused, YOU MUST KNOW it. And YOU must do something about it to stop it.


Yes! My parents always said we can be anything we want. I kinda translated that into be the best you can be. I tried to convey that to my kids as well. Sure, become a cop. Just be the best cop you can be.
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12-23-2012, 05:05 AM #18
JollyRoger Incognito Anonymous
 
(12-23-2012, 05:03 AM)JayRodney Wrote:  Surprising he's not employed by a private security firm.


Private security pays shït with little or no benefits. His best bet was joining the local Police force here. they are all good guys, who believe in Common law and I trust them with my daughter's life.

Enough said.
12-23-2012, 06:20 AM #19
オタマジャクシ Member
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(12-23-2012, 04:45 AM)JollyRoger Wrote:  Never tried, charge or convicted. it ruined me spiritually and emotionally. As well as it destroyed my entire family. All in an attempt to cover her sin of adultery.


Had one that was worse in some ways and better in some ways.

You have my sympathies.

It sounds like you are relating to the kids ok.

Best thing for the anger is a speed bag or a punching bag. Some emotions don't come with a convenient outlet.


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12-23-2012, 06:22 AM #20
JollyRoger Incognito Anonymous
 
(12-23-2012, 06:20 AM)オタマジャクシ Wrote:  
(12-23-2012, 04:45 AM)JollyRoger Wrote:  Never tried, charge or convicted. it ruined me spiritually and emotionally. As well as it destroyed my entire family. All in an attempt to cover her sin of adultery.


Had one that was worse in some ways and better in some ways.

You have my sympathies.

It sounds like you are relating to the kids ok.

Best thing for the anger is a speed bag or a punching bag. Some emotions don't come with a convenient outlet.


Let's just say..... I've prevented a few armed robberies in my time....

Bare handed.
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12-23-2012, 06:24 AM #21
JollyRoger Incognito Anonymous
 
(12-23-2012, 06:20 AM)オタマジャクシ Wrote:  
(12-23-2012, 04:45 AM)JollyRoger Wrote:  Never tried, charge or convicted. it ruined me spiritually and emotionally. As well as it destroyed my entire family. All in an attempt to cover her sin of adultery.


Had one that was worse in some ways and better in some ways.

You have my sympathies.

It sounds like you are relating to the kids ok.

Best thing for the anger is a speed bag or a punching bag. Some emotions don't come with a convenient outlet.


Last time I used a heavy bag, I wasn't able to move my hands and wrists for 3 days. I think I fractured my ulna bones from hitting it too hard, repeatedly.
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12-23-2012, 08:02 AM #22
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(12-23-2012, 04:57 AM)JollyRoger Wrote:  
(12-23-2012, 04:53 AM)Octo Wrote:  I'm sorry you had to go through something like that. That's really bad.

Good thing your daughter knows about it though. Always best to be honest about things, at least in my opinion.

My son wanted to be a cop, but he's color blind so he wasn't thankfully eligible. He's way too smart to be a cop.

Anyway, I know you're not asking for advise but I'll give it to you anyway. Support them no matter what. hug.gif


That's why I gave her the money and told her to be safe.

this was my lecture:

If you are going to be a Cop. be a GOOD cop. If you are wearing a badge, one day, the anger WILL get to you. take it from someone who was in the security field for several years. It is YOUR responsibility to uphold the law and to PROTECT others. If someone is being falsely accused, YOU MUST KNOW it. And YOU must do something about it to stop it.

Except laws are becoming more and more against people's well-being, so a good cop would actually defy some of the laws and turn a blind eye when people violate some of these laws.
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12-23-2012, 08:15 AM #23
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(12-23-2012, 08:02 AM)Anonymous Kritter Wrote:  
(12-23-2012, 04:57 AM)JollyRoger Wrote:  
(12-23-2012, 04:53 AM)Octo Wrote:  I'm sorry you had to go through something like that. That's really bad.

Good thing your daughter knows about it though. Always best to be honest about things, at least in my opinion.

My son wanted to be a cop, but he's color blind so he wasn't thankfully eligible. He's way too smart to be a cop.

Anyway, I know you're not asking for advise but I'll give it to you anyway. Support them no matter what. hug.gif


That's why I gave her the money and told her to be safe.

this was my lecture:

If you are going to be a Cop. be a GOOD cop. If you are wearing a badge, one day, the anger WILL get to you. take it from someone who was in the security field for several years. It is YOUR responsibility to uphold the law and to PROTECT others. If someone is being falsely accused, YOU MUST KNOW it. And YOU must do something about it to stop it.

Except laws are becoming more and more against people's well-being, so a good cop would actually defy some of the laws and turn a blind eye when people violate some of these laws.


This is the path she has chosen. Not to late to discover that it may not be such a good idea.
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12-23-2012, 11:34 AM #24
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(12-23-2012, 04:43 AM)JollyRoger Wrote:  Yes...

it's her Mother's fault.

her Mother falsely accused me of molesting my own daughters and ruined my life. My daughter IS aware of this.

I think subconsciously, she is seeking justice for me. Because I did nothing wrong.


A lie like that is a terrible one should never have to endure.

It is very sad that some feel the need to commit such an evil.

They are only thinking of themselves.

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...not sure why but it seems more to be women who do this to that extreme rather then men. If men lie it's usually about cheating with the secretary or some other more insignificant shït.



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12-23-2012, 11:37 AM #25
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(12-23-2012, 04:57 AM)JollyRoger Wrote:  
(12-23-2012, 04:53 AM)Octo Wrote:  I'm sorry you had to go through something like that. That's really bad.

Good thing your daughter knows about it though. Always best to be honest about things, at least in my opinion.

My son wanted to be a cop, but he's color blind so he wasn't thankfully eligible. He's way too smart to be a cop.

Anyway, I know you're not asking for advise but I'll give it to you anyway. Support them no matter what. hug.gif


That's why I gave her the money and told her to be safe.

this was my lecture:

If you are going to be a Cop. be a GOOD cop. If you are wearing a badge, one day, the anger WILL get to you. take it from someone who was in the security field for several years. It is YOUR responsibility to uphold the law and to PROTECT others. If someone is being falsely accused, YOU MUST KNOW it. And YOU must do something about it to stop it.


With that kind of attitude I don't think she is going be cop for very long.

I hope she is never put in that situation but the odds are it will probably happen several times a week.
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12-23-2012, 12:37 PM #26
JollyRoger Incognito Anonymous
 
(12-23-2012, 11:37 AM)Anonymous Kritter Wrote:  
(12-23-2012, 04:57 AM)JollyRoger Wrote:  
(12-23-2012, 04:53 AM)Octo Wrote:  I'm sorry you had to go through something like that. That's really bad.

Good thing your daughter knows about it though. Always best to be honest about things, at least in my opinion.

My son wanted to be a cop, but he's color blind so he wasn't thankfully eligible. He's way too smart to be a cop.

Anyway, I know you're not asking for advise but I'll give it to you anyway. Support them no matter what. hug.gif


That's why I gave her the money and told her to be safe.

this was my lecture:

If you are going to be a Cop. be a GOOD cop. If you are wearing a badge, one day, the anger WILL get to you. take it from someone who was in the security field for several years. It is YOUR responsibility to uphold the law and to PROTECT others. If someone is being falsely accused, YOU MUST KNOW it. And YOU must do something about it to stop it.


With that kind of attitude I don't think she is going be cop for very long.

I hope she is never put in that situation but the odds are it will probably happen several times a week.


She has her lessons to learn.
12-23-2012, 02:01 PM #27
AniMeyhem! Member
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just read your thread, JollyRoger...you have my deepest sympathies for the shït your ex put you through. Finding what I call a pressure release valve for the anger is not always easy and is different for each person; for me it was Tai Chi, meditation and blowing the shït out of stuff with bullets (target shooting at inanimate objects, not living creatures. I only shoot at living things when I'm hunting and I do my utmost to make it a humane, quick kill. I also only shoot what I'm willing to eat.)

I hope your daughter finds her calling, whether it be on the force or elsewhere. My family has a tradition of service, both military and law enforcement. My uncle was a police detective in Orlando, FL before he retired. He was one of the good ones you hardly ever hear about.
12-23-2012, 02:42 PM #28
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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OMG what a horrendous thing to do, falsely accuse you of that. I can't imagine ... sad2.gif
I watched that happen to my 5th grade teacher, a man I respected and admired. It was awful.
Sounds like you've made your life a fulfilling one despite her. hug.gif
12-23-2012, 06:00 PM #29
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This is a really sad thread that merges two topics:

Police or prosecutor misconduct.

Women using the legal system as a weapon to resolve personal disputes with men.

Both of these are horrible problems.

Don't have a answer for either one.



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