99.9% of porn watchers are men. Most of us don't really want to watch other dudes have sex and those that do are probably watching gay porn. Guys in porn are more like props.
What politics from both sides wants to teach us is that things are never complex. If you have your little package and something doesn't fit into that package, You don't know what to make of it so you want to dismiss it or then you will have to do the work of reconsidering your assumptions. - Michael Malice