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I Hold Your Hand Someone Else Holds Your Heart
04-07-2013, 01:03 PM #1
Ruby Wolf Member
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Imo,the most important thing that men and women can learn to understand about eachother is that love and sex are different things and in reality they dont really have anything to do with eachother...

So many people think that because he or she is having sex with you,it automatically means that the person loves you and you'll want to believe that the person is loving you,but whats really being felt is the person loves the way your making them feel,but it doesnt mean they'll love you for doing it...

Most likely,the present day divorce rate and the ever increasing amounts of infidelity thats happening so much more than it did not so long ago,is because too many men and women are confusing love and sex by thinking they are the same...

Whats empowering these once happy unions of men and women to so often fade into hate filled loveless mariages and then bitter divorce and whats keeping those things perpetually occurring again and again is the fact that so many men and women think sex and love are the same and too many men act love to get sex and too many women act sex to get love...

The difficult to realize and painful to accept fact that love and sex are different things and how they really dont have anything to do with eachother is perfectly expressed within the meaning of these few simple yet profound words...

I Hold Your Hand Someone Else Holds Your Heart

04-07-2013, 01:27 PM #2
JayRodney ⓐⓛⓘⓔⓝ
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Profound words indeed. Octo and I are twin flames, we know these things instinctively but sadly most miss the bigger picture.
We knew this from the beginning, and when that happens nothing in the world, not even me being from the US and her being from Finland for example can keep you apart.
I had a dream about Octo when I was very young. When I saw her I recognized her immediately. As if we were programmed to recognize each other.
We are the exception to every rule. Great post hi5.gif beercheer.gif

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04-07-2013, 01:48 PM #3
Ruby Wolf Member
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(04-07-2013, 01:27 PM)JayRodney Wrote:  Profound words indeed. Octo and I are twin flames, we know these things instinctively but sadly most miss the bigger picture.
We knew this from the beginning, and when that happens nothing in the world, not even me being form the US and her being from Finland for example can keep you apart.
I had a dream about Octo when I was very young. When I saw her I recognized her immediately. As if we were programmed to recognize each other.
We are the exception to every rule. Great post hi5.gif beercheer.gif

Thanx and i'm glad to hear it and hopefully theres lots of younger people out there who will be reading this thread and then maybe they wont have to live through years of tears and pain finding out the hard way...
04-07-2013, 02:13 PM #4
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Everyone has their other half that makes them whole. Fear is the enemy. Fear is what holds all of of us back.
It's by design. We've already moved mountains together, and it's not going to stop as long as we're both alive. Much to the chagrin of wanna bees and pretenders. They keep hating we keep skating. beerbong.gif

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04-07-2013, 02:27 PM #5
Octo Mother Superior
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I think another thing is also the belief that someone else is responsible for your own happiness. I've found this to be not true. If you can't be happy by yourself you won't be happy with anyone else either.
04-07-2013, 03:21 PM #6
j browsing Member
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my husband and I will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary this year..we only dated two weeks and then eloped ya know when it's rightthumbsup.gif

"when life gives you lemons..throw them at someone"...Grumpy Cat good.png
04-07-2013, 03:25 PM #7
Octo Mother Superior
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beercheer.gif Congrats! hug.gif

Yep you know it when it happens, but you also need the balls to take the leap.
04-07-2013, 05:59 PM #8
Shadow Incognito
 
Why can't the one who holds your hand also hold your heart?
04-07-2013, 06:11 PM #9
Cynicalabsurdance Member
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Quote Octo ;
"""" If you can't be happy by yourself you won't be happy with anyone else either. ""

yeah that

depending on another for your happiness causes a reliance that will
never cease .

they will come into your life, you are happy until
you become bored with them
then you become unhappy with them
and seek another for a fresh new happy, which is not true happy

so you seek true happy but get only doses of temporary happy each time .

SUX !
04-07-2013, 06:25 PM #10
Octo Mother Superior
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(04-07-2013, 05:59 PM)Shadow Wrote:  Why can't the one who holds your hand also hold your heart?


They can! yay.gif
04-07-2013, 06:27 PM #11
JayRodney ⓐⓛⓘⓔⓝ
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(04-07-2013, 06:11 PM)Cynicalabsurdance Wrote:  Quote Octo ;
"""" If you can't be happy by yourself you won't be happy with anyone else either. ""

yeah that

depending on another for your happiness causes a reliance that will
never cease .

they will come into your life, you are happy until
you become bored with them
then you become unhappy with them
and seek another for a fresh new happy, which is not true happy

so you seek true happy but get only doses of temporary happy each time .

SUX !


Oh so true until that magic happens.

Wait am I writing Frank Sinatra lyrics?

wonder.gif

04-07-2013, 06:28 PM #12
Cynicalabsurdance Member
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(04-07-2013, 03:21 PM)j browsing Wrote:  my husband and I will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary this year..we only dated two weeks and then eloped ya know when it's rightthumbsup.gif


that's right exactly kiddo

chemistry , connection , no one sucks at a relationship if the two
are tuned to each other .

nothing lop sided works well .

I've held a lot of hands in my life , perhaps too many ,

That Spark of the Heart can be counted as little as only twice for me .

04-07-2013, 06:34 PM #13
Cynicalabsurdance Member
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(04-07-2013, 05:59 PM)Shadow Wrote:  Why can't the one who holds your hand also hold your heart?


Octo's absolutely right

A matter of Maturity in the self , once there ,
and another has that achieved as well

along with the chemistry ,, the match is heaven

you will work through anything with each other if you're inner being
is mature enough to value the love between you .

04-07-2013, 06:41 PM #14
Ruby Wolf Member
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(04-07-2013, 05:59 PM)Shadow Wrote:  Why can't the one who holds your hand also hold your heart?

Sometimes thats how it really is between two people,but usually its not...

Most likely,the present day divorce rate and the ever increasing amounts of infidelity thats happening so much more than it did not so long ago,is because too many men and women are confusing love and sex by thinking they are the same...

"I fell in love,she just stood there"...Woody Allen



04-07-2013, 07:27 PM #15
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