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I finally won after a 37 years battle
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03-06-2013, 05:23 PM #1
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I finally won an argument against my step father after so many years of constantly having to be intimidated and bullied my whole life by him. He refused to admit to a counselor that he hit me back as a child even though he wasn't my real father and a military figure too. So after years and years of me learning not to ask him for anything as to not set him off in a blind rage and every Xmas having to hear his sarcastic,"...Great, just what he needs... " comment on what i get from my relatives, just to ruin every Xmas I ever had, so I had to learn not to see my mother much due this cold-hearted bastard.
This argument was great because I had all my factors backed up with fact and he was just trying to bully me.
He's been trying to bully me all the time to push me over the edge so he can call the cops. So I have to resist from anything every time and bite my lip.
He always wanted to accuse me off acting like a child , yet he's the one who loses it at the drop of a hat..? Funny how he says he doesn't remember hitting me, yet he told my mother that he remembers something I did right before he hit me? If he doesn't remember, then why does he remember the moment before? Anyways I pointed out that he was the actual child because he was too pussy to admit to the counselor or anyone that he hit me! ƒükkin douche has always been at war with me for some childish bullshit of his since I was a 2 years old> . What a bunch of shït, and this is a military figure too of 25+ years. I finally won a battle against you you ƒükkin piece of shït! I can finally go on in life, I feel that over the past two weeks something big happened and something big is changing, Especially when I woke up two sunday's ago at 12:30 pm and as I got up and stretched , thunder roared as if God was saying hello as he likes to, Perfect timing!!!! I should of been dead at least 100+ times, if it wasn't for God!
03-06-2013, 05:33 PM #2
JayRodney ⓐⓛⓘⓔⓝ
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I despise personal conflict, but there's always somebody god put here just to piss you off. chuckle.gif Glad you're getting things sorted out though, that is the important thing. Screw that douche bag, If I were in your shoes I would move the hell out of town, or if I stayed I would have nothing to do with him.
If your mom wants to see you she can come to you, just tell her like it is. I think your old enough to stand up for yourself; ğck 'em if they don't like it.

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03-06-2013, 05:38 PM #3
Kreeper Griobhtha
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Ummmm...


Congrats?


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Politicians hide themselves away
They only started the war
Why should they go out to fight?
They leave that role to poor
03-06-2013, 05:43 PM #4
JayRodney ⓐⓛⓘⓔⓝ
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hmm.gif I think so...

maybe...

sort of...

seems like it.

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03-06-2013, 06:16 PM #5
Wolf Pup Member
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I've know people like that and they enjoy the conflict. They feed off of being controling and hateful. I'm surprised your mom didnt kick him in the balls after hitting her child.
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03-06-2013, 11:33 PM #6
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(03-06-2013, 05:23 PM)Anonymous Kritter Wrote:  I finally won an argument against my step father after so many years of constantly having to be intimidated and bullied my whole life by him. He refused to admit to a counselor that he hit me back as a child even though he wasn't my real father and a military figure too. So after years and years of me learning not to ask him for anything as to not set him off in a blind rage and every Xmas having to hear his sarcastic,"...Great, just what he needs... " comment on what i get from my relatives, just to ruin every Xmas I ever had, so I had to learn not to see my mother much due this cold-hearted bastard.
This argument was great because I had all my factors backed up with fact and he was just trying to bully me.
He's been trying to bully me all the time to push me over the edge so he can call the cops. So I have to resist from anything every time and bite my lip.
He always wanted to accuse me off acting like a child , yet he's the one who loses it at the drop of a hat..? Funny how he says he doesn't remember hitting me, yet he told my mother that he remembers something I did right before he hit me? If he doesn't remember, then why does he remember the moment before? Anyways I pointed out that he was the actual child because he was too pussy to admit to the counselor or anyone that he hit me! ƒükkin douche has always been at war with me for some childish bullshit of his since I was a 2 years old> . What a bunch of shït, and this is a military figure too of 25+ years. I finally won a battle against you you ƒükkin piece of shït! I can finally go on in life, I feel that over the past two weeks something big happened and something big is changing, Especially when I woke up two sunday's ago at 12:30 pm and as I got up and stretched , thunder roared as if God was saying hello as he likes to, Perfect timing!!!! I should of been dead at least 100+ times, if it wasn't for God!


With "blind rage" you literally black out. It's can be like having missing time. You will likely remember the trigger but what you did afterwards simply isn't in your memory.

It happened to me once when when my sister hit me in the balls when we were kids. Was the weirdest thing. I didn't hit her but grabbed her and shook her violently and threw her on the ground. It was over very quickly but there was nothing in memory. It was like a "black" gap where all sensory data was blocked. part of ones fight or flight reflex. Rage takes over you don't have time for feeling pain or processing sensory input so you just react. Different things can trigger this in different people... some more easily then others. It is a throwback to our more primitive past.
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03-06-2013, 11:38 PM #7
Anonymous Kritter Incognito Anonymous
 
...it was never in my nature to rage either.

I had a bit of temper when younger but never lost control except for that one time mentioned above.

In my youth there have been several instances where people have pushed me to react or fight to the point of actually hitting me but I would just take it(was never a fighter). Never lost it. Maybe I just have other ways of expressing? We all channel differently. Some more subtly then others.



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