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10-13-2013, 01:57 AM #1
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Had a telephone conversation suddenly go south last night with an ex-girlfriend. We've looked after each other for the last few years - her especially since she is pretty much disabled.

She suddenly became hysterical and dismissive of me over politics. I was in no mood to fight, so I got off the phone, nearly hanging up.

She called me back three times, but I'm still in no mood to talk to her, so I didn't answer. If I talked to her right now, I'd probably blow a gasket. Plus these "make up" calls take too damn long. It's just too much effort.

I can feel my vibratory rate at about half of what it usually is. It sucks.

Pray for me. hug.gif
10-13-2013, 02:03 AM #2
Octo Mother Superior
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She's upset about politics?

Sure

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10-13-2013, 02:14 AM #3
KILLUMINATI Made Ya Look!!
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(10-13-2013, 01:57 AM)Below Average Genius Wrote:  Had a telephone conversation suddenly go south last night with an ex-girlfriend. We've looked after each other for the last few years - her especially since she is pretty much disabled.

She suddenly became hysterical and dismissive of me over politics. I was in no mood to fight, so I got off the phone, nearly hanging up.

She called me back three times, but I'm still in no mood to talk to her, so I didn't answer. If I talked to her right now, I'd probably blow a gasket. Plus these "make up" calls take too damn long. It's just too much effort.

I can feel my vibratory rate at about half of what it usually is. It sucks.

I would just change my phone number.

I've done that twice because of crazy females.
10-13-2013, 02:21 AM #4
JayRodney ⓐⓛⓘⓔⓝ
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(10-13-2013, 02:14 AM)CuckooKill Wrote:  
(10-13-2013, 01:57 AM)Below Average Genius Wrote:  Had a telephone conversation suddenly go south last night with an ex-girlfriend. We've looked after each other for the last few years - her especially since she is pretty much disabled.

She suddenly became hysterical and dismissive of me over politics. I was in no mood to fight, so I got off the phone, nearly hanging up.

She called me back three times, but I'm still in no mood to talk to her, so I didn't answer. If I talked to her right now, I'd probably blow a gasket. Plus these "make up" calls take too damn long. It's just too much effort.

I can feel my vibratory rate at about half of what it usually is. It sucks.

I would just change my phone number.

I've done that twice because of crazy females.

yup.gif Had to do that on an occasion or two. I attracted stalkey people once in a while. wtf2.gif

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10-13-2013, 02:25 AM #5
Softy Incognito Anonymous
 
Hi BAG,

Big mistake,,,do not argue with girlfriends over politics,,,

or even with people in general,,,my experience is it does not

end well,,,and it doesn't matter,,,too emotionally keyed,,,love to

hear the sweet lies of the politicians whispered in their ear,,,

I just let it go,,,sometimes they figure stuff out on their own,,,

and the only way it sticks anyway,,,or someone else tells them,,,

argue on the forums,,,where it doesn't matter,,,they took a survey,,,

people feel stronger about politics,,,than religion,,,race,,,whatever,,,

well a majority of them,,,just isn't worth it,,,when it is up close and

personal,,,it is hard not to say something,,,I know,,,but suffered

enough to just let it go now,,,much less painful...

(:X
10-13-2013, 02:45 AM #6
Octo Mother Superior
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No the ex is blaming some hurt she carries around and probably doesn't know herself why she's reacting.
10-13-2013, 02:46 AM #7
Below Average Genius Member
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(10-13-2013, 02:25 AM)Softy Wrote:  Hi BAG,

Big mistake,,,do not argue with girlfriends over politics,,,

or even with people in general,,,my experience is it does not

end well,,,and it doesn't matter,,,too emotionally keyed,,,love to

hear the sweet lies of the politicians whispered in their ear,,,

I just let it go,,,sometimes they figure stuff out on their own,,,

and the only way it sticks anyway,,,or someone else tells them,,,

argue on the forums,,,where it doesn't matter,,,they took a survey,,,

people feel stronger about politics,,,than religion,,,race,,,whatever,,,

well a majority of them,,,just isn't worth it,,,when it is up close and

personal,,,it is hard not to say something,,,I know,,,but suffered

enough to just let it go now,,,much less painful...

(:X

Yeah,. I wasn't even trying to talk about politics in the you're wrong and I'm right mode.

I'd simply mentioned the $25,000 gift that the Fisher House was giving to the families of killed soldiers. She started grilling me about it and the $100,000 they normally get from the government.

I kept trying to tell her the $25K was a private gift in addition to the $100k. Then I mentioned Obama had opposed the $100K payment (he'd been absolutely silent about it until after both Houses had unanimously approved payment when he should have been out front on it.) Wrong move.

The next 60 seconds was 2/3 hysteria and 1/3 insult.

Whatever precipitated it, the fact is that yesterday is gone. Can't change it. I'm bummed out now. I don't want to be cruel to her since she is in bad shape physically. But thinking about her and how insulting she was makes me not want to talk to her any time soon.

Pray for me. hug.gif
10-13-2013, 02:48 AM #8
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(10-13-2013, 02:45 AM)Octo Wrote:  No the ex is blaming some hurt she carries around and probably doesn't know herself why she's reacting.

Could be. She's probably mad at her family that has treated her like dirt. Her sister is a piece of work. Same with her sister's daughter.

Pray for me. hug.gif
10-13-2013, 02:53 AM #9
j browsing Member
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you said she is disabled...I have been very ill the past few years and I have times when I have a lot of emotions running thru me...and I lash out at my husband

"when life gives you lemons..throw them at someone"...Grumpy Cat good.png
10-13-2013, 03:00 AM #10
Octo Mother Superior
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Well it's not cool to put anybody else down just because you feel like it. Seems like some women are taking advantage of some sort of contrived weakness.
10-13-2013, 03:04 AM #11
j browsing Member
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well I don't do it on purpose chuckle.gif and regret it and stop myself and apologize

"when life gives you lemons..throw them at someone"...Grumpy Cat good.png
10-13-2013, 03:08 AM #12
Octo Mother Superior
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lmao.gif

You know I wasn't talking about you JB rofl.gifhug.gif
10-13-2013, 03:11 AM #13
j browsing Member
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I know octo hug.gif but I always feel so damn guilty lmao.gif

"when life gives you lemons..throw them at someone"...Grumpy Cat good.png
10-13-2013, 03:35 AM #14
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(10-13-2013, 03:00 AM)Octo Wrote:  Well it's not cool to put anybody else down just because you feel like it. Seems like some women are taking advantage of some sort of contrived weakness.

The way it looks to me is that Meg (not her real name) tried to be a goodie goodie all her life afraid to speak out. Meg can be really naive. In fact, I've never known someone as naive as her. As a result, people have taken advantage of her.

Well, as she reaches the last years of her life, and being shat on one time too many, it's bothering her.

So she's overly sensitive.

This is speculation on my part. I could be wrong about all of this.

But it still doesn't make me want to talk to her. I will at some point, but it is tiresome having to go through it.

Pray for me. hug.gif
10-13-2013, 03:39 AM #15
KILLUMINATI Made Ya Look!!
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(10-13-2013, 02:21 AM)JayRodney Wrote:  
(10-13-2013, 02:14 AM)CuckooKill Wrote:  
(10-13-2013, 01:57 AM)Below Average Genius Wrote:  Had a telephone conversation suddenly go south last night with an ex-girlfriend. We've looked after each other for the last few years - her especially since she is pretty much disabled.

She suddenly became hysterical and dismissive of me over politics. I was in no mood to fight, so I got off the phone, nearly hanging up.

She called me back three times, but I'm still in no mood to talk to her, so I didn't answer. If I talked to her right now, I'd probably blow a gasket. Plus these "make up" calls take too damn long. It's just too much effort.

I can feel my vibratory rate at about half of what it usually is. It sucks.

I would just change my phone number.

I've done that twice because of crazy females.

yup.gif Had to do that on an occasion or two. I attracted stalkey people once in a while. wtf2.gif

Crazy seems to find me 13.gif



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