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I'm soooo in the dumps...
10-13-2013, 03:51 AM #16
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(10-13-2013, 03:39 AM)CuckooKill Wrote:  
(10-13-2013, 02:21 AM)JayRodney Wrote:  
(10-13-2013, 02:14 AM)CuckooKill Wrote:  
(10-13-2013, 01:57 AM)Below Average Genius Wrote:  Had a telephone conversation suddenly go south last night with an ex-girlfriend. We've looked after each other for the last few years - her especially since she is pretty much disabled.

She suddenly became hysterical and dismissive of me over politics. I was in no mood to fight, so I got off the phone, nearly hanging up.

She called me back three times, but I'm still in no mood to talk to her, so I didn't answer. If I talked to her right now, I'd probably blow a gasket. Plus these "make up" calls take too damn long. It's just too much effort.

I can feel my vibratory rate at about half of what it usually is. It sucks.

I would just change my phone number.

I've done that twice because of crazy females.

yup.gif Had to do that on an occasion or two. I attracted stalkey people once in a while. wtf2.gif

Crazy seems to find me 13.gif

You? No way!

Pray for me. hug.gif
10-13-2013, 04:29 AM #17
Softy Incognito Anonymous
 
Hi BAG,

well,,,lots of advice,,,and I am not an expert,,,but as far as my

girlfriend,,,I don't talk politics,,,she is in agreement on most

things,,,but right or wrong,,,I lose,,,get my drift,,,not sure if

it is because I get upset over it sometimes or what it is,,,just learned

not a good subject,,,so I avoid it,,,stay up beat,,,about everything,,,

or keep my mouth shut,,,so give her a call,,,say nice things only,,,

stay positive,,,and think you will come out of it at least feeling better,,,

I used to date beauty queens,,,like Miss New Mexico beauty queens,,,

I was so in lust,,,long ago,,,stupid kid,,,talk about crazy,,,always too

hot or too cold,,,or something,,,now I am all like,,,you know how to cook???...

(:X
10-13-2013, 04:38 AM #18
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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Cut yourself some slack BAG, you're allowed time out. hug.gif
10-13-2013, 04:45 AM #19
Below Average Genius Member
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(10-13-2013, 04:29 AM)Softy Wrote:  Hi BAG,

I used to date beauty queens,,,like Miss New Mexico beauty queens,,,

I was so in lust,,,long ago,,,stupid kid,,,talk about crazy,,,always too

hot or too cold,,,or something,,,now I am all like,,,you know how to cook???...

(:X

chuckle.gif Isn't that the truth! A beauty queen is likely to be HIGH, HIGH maintenance.

A great cook is much better.

Pray for me. hug.gif
10-13-2013, 04:51 AM #20
Below Average Genius Member
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Good news. She called and we just got off the phone several minutes ago.

She apologized and asked for forgiveness. She's a good person or at least tries to be. That is worth a lot.

It didn't drag out like some phone calls in the past which was really nice. The whole thing took maybe 20-25 minutes which isn't bad for something like this.

Life is back to normal.

Thanks to everyone who joined in to help me feel better. If it hadn't been for you, I wouldn't have been in the right frame of mind to answer the phone.

Pray for me. hug.gif
10-13-2013, 06:55 AM #21
Softy Incognito Anonymous
 
(10-13-2013, 04:45 AM)Below Average Genius Wrote:  
(10-13-2013, 04:29 AM)Softy Wrote:  Hi BAG,

I used to date beauty queens,,,like Miss New Mexico beauty queens,,,

I was so in lust,,,long ago,,,stupid kid,,,talk about crazy,,,always too

hot or too cold,,,or something,,,now I am all like,,,you know how to cook???...

(:X

chuckle.gif Isn't that the truth! A beauty queen is likely to be HIGH, HIGH maintenance.

A great cook is much better.

Well good,,,glad that worked out ok,,,remember,,,only say good things,,,

sounds like there is enough negative,,,but yeah,,,true story,,,Miss New Mexico,,,

Runner ups too,,,which were actually hotter,,,you know how that goes,,,

fekk the talent part,,,anyway,,,didn't have enough cash to waste too much

on the maintenance part of it,,,problem I had,,,other guys kept hitting on them,,,

like all the time,,,rich guys too,,,and I am the extremely jealous type,,,so I would

have to beat the crap out of them,,,and this was like all the time,,,you know,,,

got to protect the property,,,and not a one of them girls knew how to cook,,,

or was willing to do so,,,so I would have to do all this fighting with a belly full

of Mac and Cheese,,,or Raman noodles,,,and after a while it just got old...

(:X
10-13-2013, 01:22 PM #22
White Ribbon call me
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(10-13-2013, 04:38 AM)Shadow Wrote:  Cut yourself some slack BAG, you're allowed time out. hug.gif

yep, let the crazy lady calm the ğck down..
10-13-2013, 04:05 PM #23
Wicked Oblivion Member
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If she really likes you and really wants to be with you...

She'll make those things happen so easily and you wont even hardly have to try...

Love hurts when only ones in love...

True love wont desert you...

"What I got they use to call the blues"

10-13-2013, 05:39 PM #24
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(10-13-2013, 03:35 AM)Below Average Genius Wrote:  
(10-13-2013, 03:00 AM)Octo Wrote:  Well it's not cool to put anybody else down just because you feel like it. Seems like some women are taking advantage of some sort of contrived weakness.

The way it looks to me is that Meg (not her real name) tried to be a goodie goodie all her life afraid to speak out. Meg can be really naive. In fact, I've never known someone as naive as her. As a result, people have taken advantage of her.

Well, as she reaches the last years of her life, and being shat on one time too many, it's bothering her.

So she's overly sensitive.

This is speculation on my part. I could be wrong about all of this.

But it still doesn't make me want to talk to her. I will at some point, but it is tiresome having to go through it.

Well, I understand the transition from doormat to self-assured...it's not a smooth transition, because she is probably at the stage of over-reacting rather than thinking it through and learning how to gain control, as well as learning to pick her battles. The road to self-esteem and confidence while governing your emotions is a difficult path, esp. for her being disabled, probably hypersenstive and dependant on others to a certain extent.

With this understanding, I think you should not have taken it personally, but you could have ended the political discussion and changed the subject to point out to her that her behaviour is unacceptable to you and you were right to end the discussion immediately, but only if she was continuing her misguided behaviour. Just my two cents.
10-13-2013, 07:34 PM #25
Accidental Stoner Member
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Glad it got solved cheers.gif

Gave up on understanding women a long time ago.
dunno.gif
Can't really give anyone any advice there.

One just has to love them as unconditionally as one is able to.
Try to learn to spot the weather-changes in advance.
(Yeah, good luck with that chuckle.gif )
10-13-2013, 10:19 PM #26
Softy Incognito Anonymous
 
Hi Accidental Stoner,

Happy late Birthday dude,,,hope you had a good partying!!!,,,

Yeah,,,I don't get em either,,,just learned to keep my head

down,,,and my mouth shut,,,well,,,most the time,,,and when

I forget,,,I get to relearn it all over again...

(:X
10-13-2013, 11:15 PM #27
j browsing Member
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well I don't understand men...37.gif

"when life gives you lemons..throw them at someone"...Grumpy Cat good.png
10-14-2013, 12:32 AM #28
Softy Incognito Anonymous
 
(10-13-2013, 11:15 PM)j browsing Wrote:  well I don't understand men...37.gif

fair enough...

chuckle.gif

(:X
10-14-2013, 01:51 AM #29
オタマジャクシ Member
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(10-13-2013, 04:51 AM)Below Average Genius Wrote:  Good news. She called and we just got off the phone several minutes ago.

She apologized and asked for forgiveness. She's a good person or at least tries to be. That is worth a lot.

It didn't drag out like some phone calls in the past which was really nice. The whole thing took maybe 20-25 minutes which isn't bad for something like this.

Life is back to normal.

Thanks to everyone who joined in to help me feel better. If it hadn't been for you, I wouldn't have been in the right frame of mind to answer the phone.

Overwrought arguments are like fine wine - you should let them age a little.

Letting her calls go for a while let her calm down and reconsider her position.



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