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More Than 40% Of Domestic Violence Victims Are Male
06-08-2014, 07:49 AM #1
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All too often emotionally damaged people think and feel that hate is love and physical abuse if affection especially if thats all they knew and received from their parents as a child and so we are forced to realize without denial that barbarism begins at home...

Just from talking with so many different men for so many years everywhere i go i realized that at least some of them were actually being mentally and physically abused by women but i never knew just how high the percentages actually are...

These facts and these truths are relentlessly hushed up and suppressed and further complicated by the never ending stigma of men continuously being viewed and thought of as mostly tough and cruel animals and so easily branded as cowardly wimps if they dare complain about whats being done to them by women...

Its amazing and shocking and very sad to realize that we hear and read more or less nothing about this large percentage of females abusing males being pumped up and spread around and driven into everyones minds by the media puppets of the powers that be like we most certainly do for so long about the overinflated percentages of men abusing women...

Abusive women know they can and so many of them do get away with abusing men way more than men could ever dream of getting away with abusing women because for several decades the courts and the laws and the cops are all hell bent upon demonizing and financially screwing as many men as possible a virtual modern day warlock hunt all around us continuously and modern day men are immediately deemed and doomed guilty and forced to financially prove their innocence if they can afford to,whenever they are accused by any women for doing anything,even if those men did nothing wrong and thats just warped and twisted and true...

More Than 40% Of Domestic Violence Victims Are Male > http://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/...c-violence

25 Domestically Abused Men Reveal Their Horrifying Stories > http://thoughtcatalog.com/hok-leahcim/20...g-stories/

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06-08-2014, 12:01 PM #2
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Same situation happened again with her coming in while he was asleep, only this time she crawled into his bed and began rubbing on him. While he was in this half awake/half asleep state, she started ƒükking him. He said when he realized it was her on top of him and he wasn’t just dreaming or something he threw her off.

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06-08-2014, 01:13 PM #3
Octo Mother Superior
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I'm afraid it's not uncommon at all sad2.gif
06-08-2014, 02:30 PM #4
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I've only had one relationship where the woman was domineering, was my first serious relationship too. She tried to control everything, and you probably could not see it unless you interfered with her plans.

I was young, could not see the dominance web she was constructing until I was trapped, she only physically assaulted me on one day though. She even picked two separate locks in order to attempt to get to me.

When I left the house, she got in her car screaming at me for miles to get in the car.

I'm certain she was going to be like this with any man she was with.

I'm a big guy too, was an athlete at the time, so I'm thinking that women who are this way will do it to whoever they are involved with from my experience with that.

I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
06-08-2014, 02:33 PM #5
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Heres the short version of my own domestic abuse...

Before we were married for years she was fun to be with and always so kind and helpful and wanted to make love all the time and eventually asked me to get married...

Then soon after we were married her true colors came shining through and she became ever more hateful and spiteful and vindictive and cold while decreasing our love making from more than a few times a week into once a week into once a month into making me feel like i was asking her to do a most terrible thing...

Along with dying her hair another color every week and doctors freely over prescribing her psych meds and she actually quit her job forcing me to pay all our bills which made me have to work overtime which enabled her to start bringing other men home and into our bed and asking them to leave before i got home as well as going out at night with strangers arriving outside our home in darkness to pick her up in cars i never saw before and she even literally kicked me in the face and gave me a bruised and blackened eye while threatening to call the cops if i said or did anything about it...

We also had our two young daughters living with us throughout her deliberately withering decay enforced against me for no valid reasons and so one day i eventually came home early from work without telling her first something that everyone should try doing once in awhile and the lies and the truth and my own denial for the sake of our children was quickly revealed and finally set me free from this two faced back stabbing witch and so unfortunately ever since i dare to trust women about as far as i can throw them about ten feet for about ten minutes...
06-08-2014, 02:45 PM #6
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That is absolutely awful.

You're a better man than I am considering the kids, there would have been a body bag if that happened to me, and I'd be doing time for the rest of my life.

A couple of questions if you do not mind.

I assume you got involved young, thinking back were you sort of treated like a pet most of the time?

The reason I ask is the relationship I was in felt that way in hindsight. I was young, fit, and fairly handsome back then. She would groom me for hours, wanted me in the best possible outfits, meticulous details on everything. She would in social circles get me positive reinforcement by whatever physical thing or style she groomed me for. Felt like one of those models being handled, although I'm far from being that attractive, but it felt the same. So when I'd get compliments I thought it was ok to do these things.

When you voiced an opinion or critical thought before you were married, were you often ignored or it turned into an argument?

When you saw things her way, was she an absolute pleasure to be around?

Thinking back to before you were married do you have any clues or insight that you could not see at the time?

I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
06-08-2014, 02:50 PM #7
Octo Mother Superior
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Horrible story Smolensk, I hope those scars are somewhat healed.
06-08-2014, 02:56 PM #8
blind prophet Member
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Forgive me for asking questions about your horrible experience, I have not really talked much about my situation I couldn't help myself.

I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
06-08-2014, 02:59 PM #9
Octo Mother Superior
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It may be a difficult topic, but important to bring out into light I think.
06-08-2014, 03:07 PM #10
j browsing Member
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I have you all beat..my first husband was diagnosed as being a phychopath ..that was a lot of fun damned.gif best day of my life was the day he died

"when life gives you lemons..throw them at someone"...Grumpy Cat good.png
06-08-2014, 03:10 PM #11
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Well when we first met i was like around twenty three and she was around twenty and when she asked me to get married after living happily together for years she was around twenty five and i was around twenty eight and thats not so young considering how fifteen year olds volunteered to fight in world war two and thats when she descended transformed into as i realized later what was a slowly molded from childhood version of her mother i mean like she did the same damn things she saw her mother doing when she was young...

I find that quite amazing and frightening how the apples usually dont fall very far from their trees and they say that you dont know someone until you've lived with them and thats bull sh#t because you dont and cant know someone if they dont want you to know them and too many people say what they think you want to hear but those carefully crafted words might not be what they're thinking and scheming...
06-08-2014, 03:15 PM #12
blind prophet Member
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Interesting, so she reflected whatever light she thought you wanted to see.

Sounds like a psychopathic trait to me.

I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
06-08-2014, 03:20 PM #13
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Posts:42,572 Threads:1,469 Joined:Feb 2011
(06-08-2014, 03:07 PM)j browsing Wrote:  I have you all beat..my first husband was diagnosed as being a phychopath ..that was a lot of fun damned.gif best day of my life was the day he died

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06-08-2014, 03:22 PM #14
blind prophet Member
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We were high school sweethearts, dated some after I graduated too, so beyond school.

But she must of have written me over a thousand notes, basically ever time we would not see each other or be around each other there was always something giving her insurance to be on my mind.

Another thing I just realized, is she was a master of getting me to do what she wanted, there was always some focal point or return to her in whatever I'd do.

She used to sit behind me during basketball games as well, always be waiting for me after games, always went out of her way to make sure she was around when I had something to do.

Always, always. There never was an escape, from anything. Man I feel sorry for whoever she ended up marrying.

I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
06-08-2014, 03:28 PM #15
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Posts:10,761 Threads:718 Joined:Oct 2012
I'll speak bluntly as usual (*-*) when i found her f###ing another guy I wanted to beat her down and hurt her I mean like duct tape trunk swamp know what I mean?! while beating the guy to death with an aluminium baseball bat but I didn't touch her or him because I would not and did not want to sacrifice my life and my future time to spend with my two lovely daughters when they were young for the blinded sake of a witch who couldnt love herself and didnt love me because of it...



Quote: Liar, Liar, Liar, Liar.

I'd never thought I'd find a woman like her,
Who could satisfy my needs,
She got just about everything,
Satisfaction guaranteed.

Then one day I hear from my friends
You've been cheatin' behind my back
All the times you said your gonna make it
Just to keep me off the track
Then one day she finally broke the news
She decided to tell me straight
Could I take her back, could I forgive
But I told her it's too late

Liar, Liar, Liar, Liar.

Thought she was perfection in every way
She was one to please
Then things changed, anyone could tell
It was there plain to see

Then one day I hear from my friends
You've been cheatin' behind my back
All the times you said your gonna make it
Just to keep me off the track
Then one day she finally broke the news
She decided to tell me straight
Could I take her back, could I forgive
But I told her it's too late
LIAR!



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