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My Parents Are Very Pissed About My 54 Year Old Boyfriend!
10-03-2013, 05:01 PM #16
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I must be a dirty girl I am 7 yrs older than my husband....lmao.gif

"when life gives you lemons..throw them at someone"...Grumpy Cat good.png
10-03-2013, 05:07 PM #17
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(10-03-2013, 05:01 PM)j browsing Wrote:  I must be a dirty girl I am 7 yrs older than my husband....lmao.gif
War is dirty...not girls...

War is evil...not sexx...

War is pornographic...not the body beautiful...

My nana was 16 when she married my 24 year old grandfather back in the mid 1930s and they stayed happily married for around 45 years until she died and they suffered no demonizing and no public persecution for doing it...

My nanas parents were more than happy that she found a hard working man who actually loved their only daughter...

But back then life was easier and there were a helluva lot less fabricated laws designed to suck as much money as possible from every damn possible angle like there is now evermore from the financially oppressed and sexually repressed because of it modern day public...
10-03-2013, 05:09 PM #18
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yup.gif thanks Beyond

"when life gives you lemons..throw them at someone"...Grumpy Cat good.png
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10-03-2013, 06:53 PM #19
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10-03-2013, 07:03 PM #20
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(10-03-2013, 07:29 AM)the white ribbon Wrote:  my flatemate is 57 and is dating a 23 yearold.. serious daddy issues.. you kind of have to wonder what is wrong with someone when they are that old and can only date 19 to 23 yearolds.. something isnt right..

each to their own though.. age is just a number.. i have been with some 17 years older and that was such a huge age gap.. so when you double that i can only imagine its worse..
Theres nothing wrong with a 10 year age gap and theres nothing wrong with a 20 year age gap and theres nothing wrong with a 30 year age gap either...

The only thing wrong with them are the pre conceived narrow minded notions and fears that someone else drilled into your head during your highly impressionable age...

Whenever any person criticizes and persecutes someone else they're only criticizing and persecuting reflections of their own denials and thats reality...

If a 20 year old is horrified at the thought of dating a 50 year old...

Thats because their horror originates from within themselves because they're in denial and wont admit to themselves that they would actually like to date a 50 years old person...

Just the other day a lady walked up to me at work and said "i don't like you"

And right away I said..."i'm just a reflection of your own denials"

She was speechless and turned around and walked away...

Now she wont make eye contact with me anymore...

Shes afraid to see inside herself...

Think about it...

Its true...
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10-04-2013, 06:36 AM #21
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(10-03-2013, 07:03 PM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  
(10-03-2013, 07:29 AM)the white ribbon Wrote:  my flatemate is 57 and is dating a 23 yearold.. serious daddy issues.. you kind of have to wonder what is wrong with someone when they are that old and can only date 19 to 23 yearolds.. something isnt right..

each to their own though.. age is just a number.. i have been with some 17 years older and that was such a huge age gap.. so when you double that i can only imagine its worse..
Theres nothing wrong with a 10 year age gap and theres nothing wrong with a 20 year age gap and theres nothing wrong with a 30 year age gap either...

The only thing wrong with them are the pre conceived narrow minded notions and fears that someone else drilled into your head during your highly impressionable age...

Whenever any person criticizes and persecutes someone else they're only criticizing and persecuting reflections of their own denials and thats reality...

If a 20 year old is horrified at the thought of dating a 50 year old...

Thats because their horror originates from within themselves because they're in denial and wont admit to themselves that they would actually like to date a 50 years old person...

Just the other day a lady walked up to me at work and said "i don't like you"

And right away I said..."i'm just a reflection of your own denials"

She was speechless and turned around and walked away...

Now she wont make eye contact with me anymore...

Shes afraid to see inside herself...

Think about it...

Its true...

^^^brilliant ^^^ to the person who has a frustrated friend, perhaps your friend's love for her older husband wasn't deep enough? When I vowed "in sickness and in health," I meant it. Has it been easy? No. There are struggles we deal with that "normal" people don't because of our age difference. Do I regret my decision? I do not. I love my husband for who he is, not his age or money (that one always makes me laugh. Honestly, we are pathetically broke). I find it kind of hurtful that people who don't support interracial marriage are labeled bigots, and folks who don't agree with gay marriage are labeled homophobes, but people who speak negatively of May - December relationships are not socially reprimanded. Does who I love disturb you? Why? Is it your future or family effected by it? I'm not trying to be snarky, rather help you investigate why you feel what you do. Humans are sexual beings, during youth and old age. The nature of sexual relationships change over time, but there is nothing shameful about being sexual in your 60's, 70's, and beyond. Enjoy it as much as you can for as long as you can ;)
10-04-2013, 06:55 AM #22
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Crikey ! WADDAYA ! wtf2.gif

ALL me wives have bin in their 20's
10-04-2013, 09:52 AM #23
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Good posts, Smolensk.

I'd ask you to be my drinking buddy tonite, if you were here. drunk.gif

Friday, after all cheers.gif
10-04-2013, 12:34 PM #24
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(10-04-2013, 09:52 AM)Accidental Stoner Wrote:  Good posts, Smolensk.

I'd ask you to be my drinking buddy tonite, if you were here. drunk.gif

Friday, after all cheers.gif
Thanx and its also (finally) pay day for me as well...

I get paid every two weeks and that sux...

14 days between checks can be quite grueling if your not $areful...

I've been getting paid every two weeks for 6 years now and i'm still not use to it and I never will be use to it either...
10-04-2013, 12:37 PM #25
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(10-03-2013, 04:56 PM)bohica Wrote:  I know a woman who was 40 when she hooked up with her 69 year old " main squeeze".
He's now 87 and she is very frustrated.
Do what you want, kiddo, I won't judge you.
See to me a 69 year old woman is old...

But to an 87 year old man shes a tite young babe (*--*)

Its all about perspective and pre conceived notions and denial...
10-04-2013, 01:11 PM #26
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I don't disagree with any of the objective posts that critique my post.
I do know the circumstances of this individual pairing, he being a city politician with a big ego and she being a poor immigrant, when they met about 18 years ago, who never expected him to last this long. (In her own words).
My wife is almost 8 years older than I am, and I don't feel that makes any difference, we've been together since '82.
Way back when, when I was 45 or so, I used to laugh when I took my daughter to the store, I would notice the venomous looks I would get from the suburban matrons as I shopped with my 20 something schoolgirl-looking daughter.
To each their own, I don't judge.

There's plenty of room for all God's creatures. Right next to the mashed potatoes!
10-04-2013, 01:37 PM #27
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(10-04-2013, 06:36 AM)Anonymous Kritter Wrote:  
(10-03-2013, 07:03 PM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  
(10-03-2013, 07:29 AM)the white ribbon Wrote:  my flatemate is 57 and is dating a 23 yearold.. serious daddy issues.. you kind of have to wonder what is wrong with someone when they are that old and can only date 19 to 23 yearolds.. something isnt right..

each to their own though.. age is just a number.. i have been with some 17 years older and that was such a huge age gap.. so when you double that i can only imagine its worse..
Theres nothing wrong with a 10 year age gap and theres nothing wrong with a 20 year age gap and theres nothing wrong with a 30 year age gap either...

The only thing wrong with them are the pre conceived narrow minded notions and fears that someone else drilled into your head during your highly impressionable age...

Whenever any person criticizes and persecutes someone else they're only criticizing and persecuting reflections of their own denials and thats reality...

If a 20 year old is horrified at the thought of dating a 50 year old...

Thats because their horror originates from within themselves because they're in denial and wont admit to themselves that they would actually like to date a 50 years old person...

Just the other day a lady walked up to me at work and said "i don't like you"

And right away I said..."i'm just a reflection of your own denials"

She was speechless and turned around and walked away...

Now she wont make eye contact with me anymore...

Shes afraid to see inside herself...

Think about it...

Its true...

The nature of sexual relationships change over time
Yeah the older ya get the more time ya spend just laying on the bottom (*---*)
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10-05-2013, 01:30 PM #28
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(10-04-2013, 12:34 PM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  
(10-04-2013, 09:52 AM)Accidental Stoner Wrote:  Good posts, Smolensk.

I'd ask you to be my drinking buddy tonite, if you were here. drunk.gif

Friday, after all cheers.gif
Thanx and its also (finally) pay day for me as well...

I get paid every two weeks and that sux...

14 days between checks can be quite grueling if your not $areful...

I've been getting paid every two weeks for 6 years now and i'm still not use to it and I never will be use to it either...

wtf i get paid once in a month. blink.gif



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