Now that I got your attention, use retroshare for Peer to Peer chatting and messages.
Computer to computer is the wave of the future, in this totalitarian nighmare we call an Internet.
If Facebook isn't carving up one side of ir; Google is carving up the next.
Retroshare. It's the way to go.
And once you get it installed, (It's free), add me a friend so we can hook up.
Maybe go see a movie. Braid our hair together.
Have a real girls' night out!