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07-12-2016, 07:11 PM #3,631
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well that was many moons ago now

another lifetime. and as i said im very happy im not in that life now

so it worked out well for me in the end.

but needless to say i look at relationships a little differently now lol

Just Plain Nuts.
07-12-2016, 07:14 PM #3,632
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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This seems to fit you to a T - CC.

Quote:Now Dr Levy and Dr Kelly, whose findings are published in Psychological Science, said they doubted the evolutionary explanation because there is a conspicuous subset of men who are more like women and find emotional betrayal more distressing than sexual infidelity.
They suspected it might have to do with trust and emotional attachment. Some people — men and women alike — are by nature more secure in their attachments to others while others are more invested in their own autonomy and seemingly less in need of intimacy.
Psychologists see this compulsive self-reliance as a defensive strategy — protection against deep-seated feelings of vulnerability.
People high on this trait tend to be preoccupied with the sexual aspects of relationships rather than emotional intimacy.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/...y-sex.html
07-12-2016, 07:36 PM #3,633
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well kinda i guess.

i was never very into sex at all with my ex

i thought it was me and that there was somethin wrong with me..

which i believe, is a common thing. but you see he was the first guy and all

that, and we just stayed together right. so i had nothing at all to compare it to.

it was not until after that was over, that i discovered there was nothin at all wrong

with me in that regard lol. what it was, was that i simply was not attracted to him

in that way at all. i couldnt have realized that then, having no other guys in my life.

basically for me it was a best friend kinda love.

which is why it hurt me so deeply i guess.

as far as a trust thing.. well, i guess psychologically it would stand to reason.

but ive had many many years to look at all that.. and i really just prefer not to

bother with having that kind of thing again. im simply not interested, is the real reason.

it isnt my style and i am not entirely sure that it ever was.

Just Plain Nuts.
07-12-2016, 07:37 PM #3,634
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i am not sure why this site keeps screwing with my sentences. that is not how i am typing them in.
13.gif

Just Plain Nuts.
07-13-2016, 02:01 AM #3,635
White Ribbon call me
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(07-12-2016, 07:04 PM)Coolchick Wrote:  yeah.
and its funny but when i went to see my brothers TCM dr, he spoke to my brother
when i was having a treatment.
he asked him if i had been divorced because of cheating.
he said betrayal of a woman;s love was one of THE worst things, that causes all
sorts of problems.. it damages organs very badly, because those emotions stay in there for years if not addressed..

he had no idea if i had been in that situation but i guess he could tell.

They are pretty amazing at diagnosing Chinese doctors.. I got really sick after a long term relationship too, it was so toxic, he had dumped it all on me for years and my qigong master said it was that relationship.. Other healers I saw said straight away that I was sick from that man I went out with, I didn't even say I was gay.. Pppffftttt.. Maybe it's obvious.. blink.gif
07-13-2016, 03:08 PM #3,636
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(07-12-2016, 07:37 PM)Coolchick Wrote:  i am not sure why this site keeps screwing with my sentences. that is not how i am typing them in.
13.gif

13.gif Now that I think about it, I don't remember typing that letter 'b' in my ssve me thread.

Is something afoot here? I wonder if White wabbit has admin rights and gets bored from time to time, then changes people's posts? Do you WW?
07-13-2016, 05:13 PM #3,637
Coolchick Member
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(07-13-2016, 02:01 AM)the white wabbit Wrote:  
(07-12-2016, 07:04 PM)Coolchick Wrote:  yeah.
and its funny but when i went to see my brothers TCM dr, he spoke to my brother
when i was having a treatment.
he asked him if i had been divorced because of cheating.
he said betrayal of a woman;s love was one of THE worst things, that causes all
sorts of problems.. it damages organs very badly, because those emotions stay in there for years if not addressed..

he had no idea if i had been in that situation but i guess he could tell.

They are pretty amazing at diagnosing Chinese doctors.. I got really sick after a long term relationship too, it was so toxic, he had dumped it all on me for years and my qigong master said it was that relationship.. Other healers I saw said straight away that I was sick from that man I went out with, I didn't even say I was gay.. Pppffftttt.. Maybe it's obvious.. blink.gif


they really are.

i wish ppl would understand that but.. they would rather go to regular drs
even if they cant find out whats wrong.
i have never understood that attitude. they must want to stay in that cycle i guess.
it cost me 20 bucks for over an hour consult with my tcm dr the first time.
and she blew my mind with the things she told me. everything she said,
answered everything i had wanted to find out that reg dr's couldnt for 2 years.
plus many many other things i had no idea about at all.

Just Plain Nuts.
07-13-2016, 05:14 PM #3,638
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(07-13-2016, 03:08 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(07-12-2016, 07:37 PM)Coolchick Wrote:  i am not sure why this site keeps screwing with my sentences. that is not how i am typing them in.
13.gif

13.gif Now that I think about it, I don't remember typing that letter 'b' in my ssve me thread.

Is something afoot here? I wonder if White wabbit has admin rights and gets bored from time to time, then changes people's posts? Do you WW?

yeah but.. you had too much wine you said lol

all i am doing is spacing the sentences out.
and it is takin over for me somehow..

Just Plain Nuts.
07-13-2016, 05:15 PM #3,639
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(07-13-2016, 05:14 PM)Coolchick Wrote:  
(07-13-2016, 03:08 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(07-12-2016, 07:37 PM)Coolchick Wrote:  i am not sure why this site keeps screwing with my sentences. that is not how i am typing them in.
13.gif

13.gif Now that I think about it, I don't remember typing that letter 'b' in my ssve me thread.

Is something afoot here? I wonder if White wabbit has admin rights and gets bored from time to time, then changes people's posts? Do you WW?

yeah but.. you had too much wine you said lol

all i am doing is spacing the sentences out.
and it is takin over for me somehow..

Oh well, another conspiracy theory shot down.
07-13-2016, 05:31 PM #3,640
Coolchick Member
Posts:5,205 Threads:118 Joined:Mar 2013
ok so i had a dream

and a bunch of us were on this bus tour. i am not sure to where..
but the bus itself was in really rough shape

the seats were blue and torn like this:

İmage

ok and so we went to where we were staying, it was a disturbingly ugly hotel
something about it was ominous.
i cant find the exact building but it was kinda like this.. just the tower part..

İmage

it was overlooking either a small lake or a big pool. not sure which.
but we were not very pleased about it..
it might have been florida or somewhere like that.

anyway so i spoke up and said 'is grumbling one of the things that would
negate this contract?' lol
and i remember one older guy who kinda chuckled too and said yeah. grumbling.
cause we all were, you know.

then i asked which bus line it was.. cause i was going to find out what the what.

and the name of it was 'Shamanic Buslines'

lol.gif

Just Plain Nuts.
07-13-2016, 05:32 PM #3,641
White Ribbon call me
Posts:9,779 Threads:371 Joined:Apr 2013
(07-13-2016, 03:08 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(07-12-2016, 07:37 PM)Coolchick Wrote:  i am not sure why this site keeps screwing with my sentences. that is not how i am typing them in.
13.gif

13.gif Now that I think about it, I don't remember typing that letter 'b' in my ssve me thread.

Is something afoot here? I wonder if White wabbit has admin rights and gets bored from time to time, then changes people's posts? Do you WW?

No, I don't have admin rights.. I don't change posts..

Octo probably does.. 13.gif
07-13-2016, 05:33 PM #3,642
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oh! and i forgot!

but vicious was there with me and she was very tired she said.
she asked me if she could rest her had on my shoulder
so she did and went to sleep.

lol wtf

Just Plain Nuts.
07-13-2016, 05:37 PM #3,643
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
Posts:14,881 Threads:420 Joined:Jun 2012
(07-13-2016, 05:31 PM)Coolchick Wrote:  ok so i had a dream

and a bunch of us were on this bus tour. i am not sure to where..
but the bus itself was in really rough shape

the seats were blue and torn like this:

İmage

ok and so we went to where we were staying, it was a disturbingly ugly hotel
something about it was ominous.
i cant find the exact building but it was kinda like this.. just the tower part..

İmage

it was overlooking either a small lake or a big pool. not sure which.
but we were not very pleased about it..
it might have been florida or somewhere like that.

anyway so i spoke up and said 'is grumbling one of the things that would
negate this contract?' lol
and i remember one older guy who kinda chuckled too and said yeah. grumbling.
cause we all were, you know.

then i asked which bus line it was.. cause i was going to find out what the what.

and the name of it was 'Shamanic Buslines'

lol.gif

The contractural part is interesting, in that, grumbling negates the contract and everyone seems to be grumbling, yet the contract wasn't negated..or was it negated all along?
07-13-2016, 05:51 PM #3,644
Coolchick Member
Posts:5,205 Threads:118 Joined:Mar 2013
well thats what i was asking because we were not very satisfied about it all

Just Plain Nuts.
07-13-2016, 06:20 PM #3,645
Octo Mother Superior
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I'm often out on road trips in my dreams. I've been to many strange cities and other weird places



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