She Abandoned Me And It Really Hurts So Bad

**Ruby Wolf** · 11-26-2015, 04:49 PM

The details of her and i are too numerous to explain here...

But i couldnt have been more of a take it easy nice and slow person....

After seeing each other for about six weeks i dared to kiss her hand like a total gentleman...

Then without warning she suddenly transformed before my eyes saying "now you've got me really f###en mad"

She walked and drove away and texted me two days later venomously saying "you crossed major boundaries, lose my number, your delusional"

It really hurts to feel that old familiar pain again but i know that all anger is self directed and so i also realize that i probably made her feel things that shes afraid to feel...

And or she wishes that the other guy in her life was as nice to her as i was and so she takes it out on me instead of him because all decent girls have another guy waiting somewhere...

What really enrages me is being abandoned while unable to say anything to her about this because she refuse to respond to anything that i have to say like what the f##k...

Maybe shes frightened to leave this other guy who might be abusing her just like what was happening to my mother years ago because love is often blind...

Or shes just another insane back stabbing psycho bitch who deserves an academy award for best supporting actress in a failed relationship...

I hold your hand someone else holds your heart and true love wont desert you and love hurts when only ones in love...

**Octo** · 11-26-2015, 05:05 PM

Sorry to hear that

**JayRodney** · 11-26-2015, 05:06 PM

????

*sigh*

Like I said... If it don't come easy, it's not worth it. Even if she wanted to keep things strictly platonic, if she was a true friend, she would not have reacted like that.
Sorry to hear that, but it's for the best you found out sooner rather than later. You'll find love when and where you least expect it.

**Ruby Wolf** · 11-26-2015, 05:31 PM

It would take several paragraphs of quotes to explain everything positive and friendly and hopeful that we said to each other...

But it looks and feels like she never really liked me, like wow, like what a two faced woman...

"And the academy award for best supporting actress in a relationship goes to..."

**Octo** · 11-26-2015, 05:38 PM

Seriously, a kiss on the hand is nothing to get your panties in a twist over. She's got some issues.

**JayRodney** · 11-26-2015, 05:38 PM

It's actually kind of creepy behavior...
She gets the award...
İmage

Have you considered she may have been your handler? *ahem*

**Accidental Stoner** · 11-26-2015, 05:39 PM

I hear you, friend.
Just got dumped myself.

I'm all hers, whenever she wants,
but I just can't live under ultimatum.
Neither am I enlightened enough
to love unconditionally, it seems.

Yet.

I think maybe JR is right.
If it doesn't come easy, there's something
not right with it from the get go.

Wish I could translate, once again, words
of wisdom from my ancestors:

"He e bara ti dra opp snoron."

Maybe JR or Octo know the right anglosaxon
idiom for it, if there is one.

Oh gods, how I love this country.

**Ruby Wolf** · 11-26-2015, 05:50 PM

If she kissed me i would have been thrilled, but i took her by surprise, taking away her control factor and pissed her off by kissing her hand, when i wanted to kiss a heluva lot more than that believe me, i mean like what the hell did she think i wanted to do?! share grandmas cooking recipes?! ha haa haaa, but honestly, it aint funny at all and i hurt all over and she doesnt give a damn...

**JayRodney** · 11-26-2015, 06:03 PM

(11-26-2015, 05:39 PM)Accidental Stoner Wrote: I hear you, friend.
Just got dumped myself.

I'm all hers, whenever she wants,
but I just can't live under ultimatum.
Neither am I enlightened enough
to love unconditionally, it seems.

Yet.

I think maybe JR is right.
If it doesn't come easy, there's something
not right with it from the get go.

Wish I could translate, once again, words
of wisdom from my ancestors:

"He e bara ti dra opp snoron."

Maybe JR or Octo know the right anglosaxon
idiom for it, if there is one.

Oh gods, how I love this country.

Woah... so sorry to hear that.
As for "He e bara ti dra opp snoron."
There's really no good English translation for that, but being around here for so long I'd have to say a very lose translation would be...
The only thing you can do is suck it up.
Damn, that seems kind of a cold way to put it.
Some things just don't work verbatim, especially in colloquial/old Swedish which as far as I can tell is the basis of English.

**Ruby Wolf** · 11-26-2015, 06:16 PM

Along with evil unleashed there was also hope released from pandoras box and its still in the air and in my mind because i cant forget her and she wont soon forget me either and she may still want me back again someday and for real after shes kicked around some more by this other guy...

"If you want something very, very badly, let it go free. If it comes back to you, it’s yours forever. If it doesn’t, it was never yours to begin with" http://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/04/08/love-set-free/

A better more perfect song expressing exactly how i feel just cant be found...

Quote: Since you've been gone I shut my eyes And I fantasize That you're here with me

Will you ever return? I won't be satisfied Till you're by my side Don't wait any longer, come back

Why don't you come back? Please hurry Why don't you come back? Please hurry

Come back and stay for good this time (Did you write the book of love?) Come back and stay for good this time (Ego and you lost)

You said goodbye I was trying to hide What I felt inside Until you passed me by

You said you'd return You said that you'd be mine Till the end of time But don't wait any longer

Why don't you come back? Please hurry Why don't you come back? Please hurry

Come back and stay for good this time (Did you write the book of love?) Come back and stay for good this time (Ego and you lost)

Love, since you've been gone I opened my eyes And I realize What we had together

Will you ever return? I'll have you change your mind If you won't stay mine Just love me forever, love me forever

Why don't you come back? Please hurry Why don't you come back? Please hurry Why don't you come back? Please hurry Why don't you come back? Please hurry

Just come back and stay for good this time (Did you write the book of love?) Come back and stay for good this time (Ego and you lost)

Come back and stay for good this time (Did you write the book of love?) Come back and stay for good this time (Ego and you lost) Don't ever leave me

Did you write the book of love? Ego and you lost Did you write the book of love? Ego and you lost Did you write the book of love?

**Kreeper** · 11-26-2015, 07:05 PM

(11-26-2015, 05:38 PM)Octo Wrote: Seriously, a kiss on the hand is nothing to get your panties in a twist over. She's got some issues.

Be happy you only wasted a few weeks on her and not a few years. If she reacted that way to a peck on the paw she was bound to explode one day. That kind of crazy just can't be contained.

And I know crazy...

**Ruby Wolf** · 11-26-2015, 07:15 PM

**Ruby Wolf** · 11-26-2015, 07:20 PM

**Ruby Wolf** · 11-26-2015, 07:25 PM

(11-26-2015, 07:05 PM)Kreeper Wrote:
(11-26-2015, 05:38 PM)Octo Wrote: Seriously, a kiss on the hand is nothing to get your panties in a twist over. She's got some issues.

Be happy you only wasted a few weeks on her and not a few years. If she reacted that way to a peck on the paw she was bound to explode one day. That kind of crazy just can't be contained.

And I know crazy...

Others i have waysted years with and once again beauty is proven to be only skin deep and when her true colors were released from within, her ugliness is revealed, a wicked witch, a short lit fuse waiting to explode, but remember to never forget that all anger is self directed, yours and mine and even hers and so if she ever faces that painful truth she will come back to me...

**DaJavoo** · 11-26-2015, 07:32 PM

She sounds like a Charter Member...

İmage