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She Abandoned Me And It Really Hurts So Bad
11-26-2015, 08:22 PM #16
Kreeper Griobhtha
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Maybe consider MGTOW for a while?

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After a bad spell with crazy chicks I quit dating for five years. I just lived life to the fullest and didn't even look. Then I met my wife without trying and we hit it off immediately. We have been together for 20 years and 2 days!

Hang in there. It gets better.

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I am not your rolling wheels, I am the highway
I am not your carpet ride I am the sky
I am not your blowing wind, I am the lightning
I am not your autumn moon, I am the night
The night
11-26-2015, 09:36 PM #17
Wicked Oblivion Member
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(11-26-2015, 08:22 PM)Kreeper Wrote:  Maybe consider MGTOW for a while?

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After a bad spell with crazy chicks I quit dating for five years. I just lived life to the fullest and didn't even look. Then I met my wife without trying and we hit it off immediately. We have been together for 20 years and 2 days!

Hang in there. It gets better.

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Just curious to know if she initially approached you or were you the first one to let her know how you felt?

These days modern girls are the engines that drive relationships and modern guys are the box cars being pulled along...

Because usually girls say if and when and where the inevitable sexx will happen because most decent looking girls can get laid whenever they want and most guys cannot...

So when very innocently and totally daringly i kissed her hand like a total gentleman i took away her control factor without warning...

And she quickly let me know how she felt about that in so many friggin words...

So in reality if a girl really likes a guy he probably wont have to try very hard to make things happen...
11-26-2015, 09:47 PM #18
Wicked Oblivion Member
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Quote: "You told me you loved me so i dont understand Why promises are snapped in two and word are made to bend"

11-26-2015, 09:53 PM #19
Wicked Oblivion Member
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Quote: "You made me promises promises You knew you'd never keep Promises promises Why do i believe"

"Arm in arm we laughed like kids At all the silly things we did You cant finish what you start If this is love it breaks my heart"

11-26-2015, 10:56 PM #20
Kreeper Griobhtha
Posts:10,574 Threads:633 Joined:Feb 2011
(11-26-2015, 09:36 PM)WykdWych Wrote:  Just curious to know if she initially approached you or were you the first one to let her know how you felt?

These days modern girls are the engines that drive relationships and modern guys are the box cars being pulled along...

Because usually girls say if and when and where the inevitable sexx will happen because most decent looking girls can get laid whenever they want and most guys cannot...

So when very innocently and totally daringly kissed her hand like a total gentleman i took away her control factor without warning...

And she quickly let me know how she felt about that in so many friggin words...

So in reality if a girl really likes a guy he probably wont have to try very hard to make things happen...

Well, it was mutual and it just happened. You will know right away. Anything else is the friend zone.

The bit about wimmin driving the relationship and men being pulled along?

I think I see the problem...

Step up, puff your chest up and be a man. (Please, no offense meant at all.) "Nice guys" get put into the friend zone because nature dictates selective breeding and survival of the fittest. It isn't necessary for the alpha dog to be the only breeder any more, but it is still in our genes.

You can be a nice guy and masculine at the same time. Also, relationships are no longer leader follower based. They are equal partnerships.

Here, watch this:



All the best to you. I have been where you are. Just move on. That ship has sailed and you were never meant to be a passenger. Your ship is out there. Just wait for it to dock.

I am not your rolling wheels, I am the highway
I am not your carpet ride I am the sky
I am not your blowing wind, I am the lightning
I am not your autumn moon, I am the night
The night
11-27-2015, 01:01 AM #21
JayRodney ⓐⓛⓘⓔⓝ
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İmage

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11-27-2015, 05:07 AM #22
White Ribbon call me
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(11-26-2015, 04:49 PM)WykdWych Wrote:  The details of her and i are too numerous to explain here...

But i couldnt have been more of a take it easy nice and slow person....

After seeing each other for about six weeks i dared to kiss her hand like a total gentleman...

Then without warning she suddenly transformed before my eyes saying "now you've got me really f###en mad"

She walked and drove away and texted me two days later venomously saying "you crossed major boundaries, lose my number, your delusional"

It really hurts to feel that old familiar pain again but i know that all anger is self directed and so i also realize that i probably made her feel things that shes afraid to feel...

And or she wishes that the other guy in her life was as nice to her as i was and so she takes it out on me instead of him because all decent girls have another guy waiting somewhere...

What really enrages me is being abandoned while unable to say anything to her about this because she refuse to respond to anything that i have to say like what the f##k...

Maybe shes frightened to leave this other guy who might be abusing her just like what was happening to my mother years ago because love is often blind...

I hold your hand someone else holds your heart and true love wont desert you and love hurts when only ones in love...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wY6i5vRlUU

Ok, well, lets break this down for you, eh..

I dont mean to be rude..

You clearly weren't seeing/dating her in her eyes.. So maybe you are a bit delusional?

So you have mistaken her kindness and friendship as something else, so its not her fault, how has she dumped you when you weren't even dating in the first place?

Burp..
11-27-2015, 09:07 AM #23
nobody Member
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Quit getting hung-up on Women, and watch this.



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 Nobody, Has a need to know about anything!
11-27-2015, 01:54 PM #24
Wicked Oblivion Member
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(11-27-2015, 05:07 AM)the white ribbon Wrote:  
(11-26-2015, 04:49 PM)WykdWych Wrote:  The details of her and i are too numerous to explain here...

But i couldnt have been more of a take it easy nice and slow person....

After seeing each other for about six weeks i dared to kiss her hand like a total gentleman...

Then without warning she suddenly transformed before my eyes saying "now you've got me really f###en mad"

She walked and drove away and texted me two days later venomously saying "you crossed major boundaries, lose my number, your delusional"

It really hurts to feel that old familiar pain again but i know that all anger is self directed and so i also realize that i probably made her feel things that shes afraid to feel...

And or she wishes that the other guy in her life was as nice to her as i was and so she takes it out on me instead of him because all decent girls have another guy waiting somewhere...

What really enrages me is being abandoned while unable to say anything to her about this because she refuse to respond to anything that i have to say like what the f##k...

Maybe shes frightened to leave this other guy who might be abusing her just like what was happening to my mother years ago because love is often blind...

I hold your hand someone else holds your heart and true love wont desert you and love hurts when only ones in love...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wY6i5vRlUU

Ok, well, lets break this down for you, eh..

I dont mean to be rude..

You clearly weren't seeing/dating her in her eyes.. So maybe you are a bit delusional?

So you have mistaken her kindness and friendship as something else, so its not her fault, how has she dumped you when you weren't even dating in the first place?

Burp..
As i mentioned above, it would take way too much typing to explain everything that her and i said to each other and did together to properly relate where i'm coming from here, how suddenly she changed without warning for basically no damn good reason at all...

But rest assured she pulled a two faced switch on me and i didnt see it coming until it was too late and the fact that she called me delusional, after talking and acting and being so nice to me, only proves that shes unable to face her own delusions, so its easier to project them in denial onto me...

And this other guy in her life, because all women have other guys somewhere in their lives, actually abandoned her and had a baby with another girl...

And this girl, who i fell in love with, actually still wants him, even though hes the one who deserves her hate, not me, even though i told her that he doesnt love you, he doesnt even like you for doing what he did to you and how sooner or later he will end up abusing you again...

If shes ever able to see that light of truth shes suppressed deep within herself, that i tried to release, thats trying to shine upon me, she may still return to the guy who really likes her and actually wants to be with her, meaning me and so please refer to these profoundly truthful and emotionally shattering lyrics below...

Maybe, unfortunately, she needs to get kicked around and walked over and used and abused and hurt and lied to some more, before shes able to see and feel the real me...



Quote: She laughed in my face, told me goodbye
Said don't think about it, you can go crazy
Any thing can happen, anything can end
Don't try to fight it, don't try to save me"

She's a woman in love
And he's gonna break her heart to pieces
She don't want to see
She's a woman in love, but it's not me

Well all right, do what you want
Don't try to talk, don't say nothing
She used to be the kind of woman
You have and you hold
She could understand the problem
She let the little things go

She's a woman in love
And he's gonna break her heart to pieces
But she don't want to know
She's a woman in love, she can't let go

Time after time, night after night
She would look up at me and say she was lonely
I don't understand what she needed
I gave her everything
She threw it all away on nothing
She's a woman in love
11-27-2015, 02:29 PM #25
Kreeper Griobhtha
Posts:10,574 Threads:633 Joined:Feb 2011
You didn't watch the video I posted, did you?


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İmage

I am not your rolling wheels, I am the highway
I am not your carpet ride I am the sky
I am not your blowing wind, I am the lightning
I am not your autumn moon, I am the night
The night
11-27-2015, 02:42 PM #26
golden locks Member
Posts:367 Threads:23 Joined:Jun 2014
(11-27-2015, 02:29 PM)Kreeper Wrote:  You didn't watch the video I posted, did you?


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İmage

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If you want to dwell in it, then do it usefully by mirroring.
dwell in why you are acting - reacting like YOU do
that might teach you something usefull about yourself. :)
anything else is a waste of energy..
11-27-2015, 03:02 PM #27
White Ribbon call me
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That clip was gold..

İmage
11-27-2015, 03:23 PM #28
Wicked Oblivion Member
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11-28-2015, 02:24 AM #29
Accidental Stoner Member
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I don't know anymore.

Maybe best just walk alone and be cool.

Thank the gods testosterone levels go down with age.

:whew:
11-28-2015, 03:18 AM #30
Wicked Oblivion Member
Posts:10,761 Threads:718 Joined:Oct 2012
(11-28-2015, 02:24 AM)Accidental Stoner Wrote:  I don't know anymore.

Maybe best just walk alone and be cool.

Thank the gods testosterone levels go down with age.

:whew:
Not mine, cuz i'm more of a bust a move inhibitionless nympho in my forties than i ever was in my twenties and thats saying a heluva lot, its just that the easy going and even easier to get females of the 1980s and 1990s seem to have gone just about extinct, well around here anyways, thats for damn sure, because these days free love hippie genes are gone from modern females dna...



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