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Should I Ask Her To Get Closer Or Wait For Her To Ask Me?
10-11-2015, 04:22 PM #1
Ruby Wolf Member
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Recently i met a lady who i think is so nice and gorgeous over another friends house...

After (accidentally running into her there) a few more times over a few weeks...

I thought about how it was possible that i might never see her again which is so true...

So i dared to ask her if i could have her phone number (not an easy thing to do for me being so shy) and she gave it to me ( a mild shock in itself) these days...

She also asked me for my cell phone number and then right there in front of me programmed it into her cell phone (another mild shock to me) these days...

Well by now two weeks later she has come over my house like two or three times during the early afternoons and we just sat around and talked about whatever...

What i would like to know ladies and germs is if she wants me physically will she ask me to get closer to cuddle and kiss and eventually have sexx?

Or should i ask her if she wants to have sexx (which my inner voice tells me would be a mistake) but i dont know for sure?

You would think i would know by now but everyone is different so i really dont know for sure...

Afraid to say and do the wrong thing but i do know that some people are dominant and some people are submissive...

I would think that submissive people would need to be asked and dominant people will do the asking?

But then what happens if two dominants or two submissives get together will they repel or attract each other?

Many years ago my friends father told us "when you meet a girl and get her phone number dont call her for two weeks and she'll be all over you" like wow...

We though two weeks was too long and by then she would just lose interest and find someone else so more like maybe waiting one week would be better?

Also back then my mother told me "if a girl really likes you you wont have to try she'll make things happen"

Any guidance and suggestions that anyone would care to relate to me about this emotional sos?



Quote: How to tell if a woman wants to have sex with you > http://www.holyjuan.com/2007/11/how-can-...-have.html

For many men, it is nearly impossible to tell when a woman wants to have sex with them. It is in a man's best interest to know the signs of when a woman wants to have sex, so that they don’t look foolish getting shut down and/or getting tasered.

So here is how you can tell when a woman wants to have sex with you:

She says, “I want to have sex with you.”
This is the surest and easiest way to find out. It also usually means that if she’s giving in this easy, it is because no one else will have sex with her or she wants to make babies. Before you engage in the act of love with Lazy Eye Susan or Tranny Janice, put on a condom and check to make she is not sleepwalking.

She says, “I don’t think I should have sex with you.”
Do not confuse this with, “No.” No means no and you should back off. “I don’t think I should have sex with you,” however, is a very tricky phrase because of the "don't think". The woman is saying this because she knows she probably shouldn’t have sex with you and is trying to talk herself out of it. What you should do is follow up with, “You are right… we should not have sex.” Be cool. As the night progresses and you play your cards right, she might change her mind. Or she may mace you.

She asks who you voted for
This question is very tricky and only has one right answer. If you say Obama, she’ll think you are patronizing her and going for the easy lay. If you say McCain, she’ll think you are pathetic and go into how Palin was demonized by the media. You should say, Ron Paul, because chicks dig guys who live dangerously or that are crazy and voting for Paul puts you in both categories.

She reveals her shaved status to you
If a woman, during normal conversation, mentions that she has a landing strip, a patch, an arrow, a Mr. Miagi banzai tree, a heart or a scorned falafel… it means that she wants you to be comfortable with it and to know what to look for on your journey to happy land. If she hands you a tick comb and a machete before you head down south, bail.

She sticks her tongue out at you
I’m not sure why women do this, but be assured that if a woman sticks her tongue out at you in a playful manner, you, my friend, are in luck. I’m not sure if it is the playfulness or the act of revealing a moist body part, but either way, you should make your move. Note, sometimes little girls stick their tongues out at people… The rule does not apply in these situations, idiot.

She invites you to her place
If a woman has class and self-dignity, she’ll couch the invite under the auspices of seeing the fabulous view from her bedroom, her new cute-as-a-button puppy or to drink some trendy, exotic tea. If she’s a dirty-girl-sure-thing or just doesn’t care about her reputation in the community, she’ll simply ask you to come home with her to test all the prime numbers on her Sleep Number Bed. Be extremely wary of any woman who asks you home to see her stamp collection or vast collection of power tools. Be extremely cautious of any chick who requests you to help with some light digging or to exfoliate her “ridged monkey” – you might end up being made into furniture.

She asks you to walk her to her car
You have to treat this one carefully. Sometimes, after a date or a night out with friends, a woman is just looking for someone to walk her to her car. But sometimes she is looking to cull you from the herd, to get you alone, so that she can then ask you back to her place. In rare "walk me to my car" instances, you can get a damsel in distress ƒück if, by chance, her car battery is dead and you can give her a jump. You can exponentially increase your chances of success by getting to her car beforehand and disconnecting her battery. When you save the day with your jumper cables and freaky mechanical intuition, she will feel obligated to invite you to her place for a cup of coffee to thank you. After that, it’s up to you, sport.

Sure-Fire
If you’re not having any luck getting a girl to flash you any of the aforementioned green-light signals, perhaps you need to lower your standards. Below are a few sure-fire situations where a woman is almost guaranteed to have sex with you:

She’s 43 or older, divorced and it’s her birthday.

She gives you free video-booth tokens at the porno store.

She has the tell-tale DUI yellow license plates on her car (note that colors vary by state, do your homework).

Every time you order a rum and coke, she mouths the word, “coke,” and starts sniffling.

She has to keep closing one eye to see you clearly at the bar… and she only has one eye.

She has a nickname like Flash, Slick, Lucky, Fast n’ Easy or Ruby.

She weighs less than 80 pounds, has sores on her back and/or can’t stop coughing.

She’s from Jersey.
10-11-2015, 04:29 PM #2
Octo Mother Superior
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DON'T ask her if she wants sex ffs! scream.gif Ask her out on a real date. Do something fun, get her a little tipsy.

bob.gif
10-11-2015, 04:37 PM #3
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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A study showed women need to be touched in a non-sexual way 10 times a day by her partner. I would suggest you do romantic gestures and do the hand holding, hair touching, kissing (no tongue at this stage), foot rubs, put your hand on her back, etc. - to make your romantic intentions known, which also everyone knows he next step is sex.

Who knows she may ask you, when she feels the time is right. But, if you touch her and make romantic gestures, she understand your intentions. Can you wait?

I am the one that initiated a sexual relationship with my husband after 2 months of dating. I guess he was waiting for me to ask him, because isn't it a known fact that most men are ready for sex at the drop of a hat?

Mars and Venus.
10-11-2015, 04:41 PM #4
Ruby Wolf Member
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(10-11-2015, 04:29 PM)Octo Wrote:  DON'T ask her if she wants sex ffs! scream.gif Ask her out on a real date. Do something fun, get her a little tipsy.

bob.gif
So if shes drunk its okay to ask her but ifs shes straight dont do it?!

When we are together (like most everyone else does) i know shes thinking about sexx and shes even mentioned the word to me but not out right directly wanting to do it on the spot and i know that she knows that i am also thinking about sexx, like who aint?!

I mean like i actually want her to ask me, but then i'm a guy and so i dont control the wheres and whens of sexx...
10-11-2015, 04:45 PM #5
JayRodney ⓐⓛⓘⓔⓝ
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Congrats! My advice is to take things slowly. Asking for sex at this point could well ruin a good thing.
Go out, do movies or dinner, or make her dinner and have some wine. She's interested or she wouldn't be hanging around. Let nature take it's course, don't be pushy.
Avoid conspiracy topics at all costs. lmao.gif

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10-11-2015, 04:48 PM #6
Octo Mother Superior
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(10-11-2015, 04:41 PM)WykdWych Wrote:  
(10-11-2015, 04:29 PM)Octo Wrote:  DON'T ask her if she wants sex ffs! scream.gif Ask her out on a real date. Do something fun, get her a little tipsy.

bob.gif
So if shes drunk its okay to ask her but ifs shes straight dont do it?!

When we are together (like most everyone else does) i know shes thinking about sexx and shes even mentioned the word to me but not out right directly wanting to do it on the spot and i know that she knows that i am also thinking about sexx, like who aint?!

I mean like i actually want her to ask me, but then i'm a guy and so i dont control the wheres and whens of sexx...

No it's not ok to ask for sex even if she's drunk! Let it happen without asking for it. US had some nice tips for you.
10-11-2015, 04:55 PM #7
Ruby Wolf Member
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Her and i were talking about medicines and food and i said "well too much of anything isnt good for us" and then i said "well except for some things" and then she said "what like sexx?" and i said "yeah but i didnt want to say it" and she said "thats okay i did"...

So she definitely opened that door and i probably should have asked her right then and there, i mean like were not getting married tomorrow, think hot and heavy casual sexx like millions of people do all the time, but i didnt (of course, nice guys finish last) and she didnt ask me either so i'm right back to the same question...

I suppose if i did ask her all she could do is say yes or no and then i would know and so would she, i dont wanna jump her bones, just wanna know if she would like to or not with me some where some day and my brother says "girls dont like to be asked they want you to just do it to them like bust a move"...

10-11-2015, 05:00 PM #8
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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10-11-2015, 05:51 PM #9
Ruby Wolf Member
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"Lets get physical, physical, let me hear your body talk, your body talk, lets get animal, animal, lets get into animal"

10-11-2015, 05:55 PM #10
Ruby Wolf Member
Posts:10,786 Threads:721 Joined:Oct 2012
This song isnt okay and its not even really good its totally awesome and intense (*=*)



Quote: "Girl, it's been a long time that we've been apart Much too long for a man who needs love I miss you since I've been away"

"Babe, it wasn't easy to leave you alone It's getting harder each time that I go If I had the choice, I would stay"

"There's no one like you I can't wait for the nights with you I imagine the things we'll do I just want to be loved by you"

"No one like you I can't wait for the nights with you I imagine the things we'll do I just want to be loved by you"

"Girl, there are really no words strong enough To describe all my longing for love I don't want my feelings restrained"

"Oh, babe, I just need you like never before Just imagine you'd come through this door To take all my sorrow away"

"There's no one like you I can't wait for the nights with you I imagine the things we'll do I just want to be loved by you"

"No one like you I can't wait for the nights with you I imagine the things we'll do I just want to be loved by you No one like you"
10-11-2015, 06:25 PM #11
Ruby Wolf Member
Posts:10,786 Threads:721 Joined:Oct 2012
Quote: "Run for the hills We're both sinners and saints Not a woman but a whore I can taste the hate"

"Well now I'm killing you Watch your face turning blue Not yet a man just a punk in the street Too young to fall in love"

10-11-2015, 08:19 PM #12
Cynicalabsurdance Member
Posts:8,759 Threads:206 Joined:Feb 2011
ARE YOU ğkking NUTZ ????!!!!

real easy

wait til she says the word ğck

then say : " I'll do that "

if she never says the word ğck

then she is not going to

or ,,,,

step close , lean to her ear ,,,

and say : " Let's ğck ! " real loud

she will have to then ,,, or her friends will call her FRIGID

and women cannot stand to be called that ,,
10-12-2015, 02:31 AM #13
White Ribbon call me
Posts:9,779 Threads:371 Joined:Apr 2013
(10-11-2015, 04:29 PM)Octo Wrote:  DON'T ask her if she wants sex ffs! scream.gif Ask her out on a real date. Do something fun, get her a little tipsy.

bob.gif

Yeah, agree.. Ffs, dont ask her if she wants sex, if she wanted it you would have had it by now.. Maybe she thinks you are gay?

blonde.gif

Joking..

From all the posts over the years i have to admit i am a bit shocked by your OP cause you sound so innocent, shy and not this overtly sexual person you seem to portray.. Your OP was very sweet!!!

Get her drunk.. Then you will know..
10-12-2015, 04:29 PM #14
Ruby Wolf Member
Posts:10,786 Threads:721 Joined:Oct 2012
(10-11-2015, 08:19 PM)Cynicalabsurdance Wrote:  ARE YOU ƒükking NUTZ ????!!!!

real easy

wait til she says the word ğck

then say : " I'll do that "

if she never says the word ğck

then she is not going to

or ,,,,

step close , lean to her ear ,,,

and say : " Let's ğck ! " real loud

she will have to then ,,, or her friends will call her FRIGID

and women cannot stand to be called that ,,
Theres no beating around the bush there no pun intended...

Shaved not stirred know what i mean?

Thats cutting to the chase hear what i'm saying?

Thats getting to the point so i'll wait for her to say the word f##k...

Or is she waiting for me to say it?

Now we're right back to the same question again!

As i mentioned above i was the first to imply the thought of sexx...

She was the first to say the word and i didnt leap upon that chance...

I didnt burst through that opening doorway cuz nice guys finish last...

To quote woody allen..."I fell in love she just stood there"...

10-13-2015, 03:26 AM #15
Ruby Wolf Member
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