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03-04-2016, 08:33 PM #31
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03-04-2016, 08:35 PM #32
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(03-04-2016, 08:10 PM)Coolchick Wrote:  
(03-04-2016, 07:30 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  Hey BV, I don't know any men or women like that. It seems strange (or maybe not so strange) how some people attract or seek out those types of people to satisfy some ill-fated need.

i dont know that i would say ill-fated.

they seek each other out because they are, as you say, fulfilling a need... which is simply to work out what their soul needs to find out.

whether they do learn or not is of course another story but that is what every person in our lives we come across is for in one way or another.

some are for short periods of time and others for long term.

if we are self aware enough to see what they teach us, it becomes alot easier.
most do not.. but then, some indeed do.

Then again, superficiality is as superficiality does.
03-04-2016, 09:43 PM #33
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im not sure what you mean by that, but it doesnt matter what the individual is doing.. the same thing about life lessons apply no matter what.
as i said they learn, or they do not..


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03-04-2016, 10:07 PM #34
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The linked article/study below explains it in greater detail. It appears it is not a learned or self-awareness thing, but a continuing natural, primitive law of attraction thing that is unrealized.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1...ealth.html
03-04-2016, 10:24 PM #35
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well i am talking about what we are doing here as our spirits that come

here to be in physical and experience that.

i wasnt really referring to how we pick a mate for successful offspring.

as an example, i am not interesting in having offspring at all.

none of that applies to me.

some want to do that and that is their journey.

some are like myself and that study has no bearing whatsoever.

Just Plain Nuts.
03-04-2016, 10:38 PM #36
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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Of course the study has no bearing on those that do not want to date or have a mate, but to those that do and I am replying in the context of BV's posts in which he seems to not understand this law of atttraction but seems to want to keep trying to find a mate but is missing the mark.
03-04-2016, 10:51 PM #37
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..because of the lesson he is missing.

that is my whole point.

even if some are doing the mate thing, as he seems to be, that does not mean that

it negates the entire reason we came here.

if a pattern keeps emerging then it is a pretty big sign that someone is missing

something. and the soul part of us is not going to stop showing us until we

pay attention.

so, it will just either keep getting worse and worse, which is when alot of ppl

resign themselves to 'life sucks for me' or Universe hates me' or whatever..

instead of, LOOKING at it and working it out once and for all.

their choice to do either one.

Just Plain Nuts.
03-04-2016, 11:28 PM #38
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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Yes, I agree CC and I get tired of men blaming women and not realizing that if you set your sights on a young and pretty woman (which the study I posted claims is natural for men) then keep in mind that she is also setting her sights using many factors. Intent is everything.
03-04-2016, 11:41 PM #39
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well

fault and blame is a ridiculous waste of ppl's lives.

that is all outward thinking. who does what to whom doesnt get anyone anywhere,
though maybe they feel somewhat better short-term.. because once again they are not having to look at themselves for that time.

the thing is to be balanced so that the environment surrounding us does not affect us or throw us off.

Just Plain Nuts.
03-04-2016, 11:53 PM #40
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(03-04-2016, 08:25 PM)Beautiful Void Wrote:  Hey guys, if you cant decide upon a blonde, or a brunette, or a red head, then buy all three, ha haa haaa, so funny, so sad and so true, in other words, wow, damn, what the f##k (*=*)

I hope you're not going by the hair color alone. Which one do you talk to the most, makes you laugh, relax?

No I'm not familiar with that kind of scenario either. I don't know any woman who is as devious as BV describes as the default character of females.
03-05-2016, 12:24 AM #41
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orgazmo3.gif She should!
03-05-2016, 12:26 AM #42
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I'm marking this thread solved.

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03-05-2016, 01:47 AM #43
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(03-05-2016, 12:18 AM)the white ribbon Wrote:  
(03-04-2016, 07:02 PM)Coolchick Wrote:  love never 'hurts'.

if you think it does you are doin it wrong.

Maybe you should date beautiful void and teach him eh?

lol ..

wait a minute i thought we were hitched.

over, is it.?

was it the not a virgin thing..

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03-05-2016, 01:48 AM #44
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(03-05-2016, 12:24 AM)Octo Wrote:  orgazmo3.gif She should!

she really shouldnt..

Just Plain Nuts.
03-05-2016, 02:47 AM #45
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Yeah maybe so, but it won't keep you safe from our crappy love advice.

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