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03-19-2013, 07:10 PM #16
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I am so sorry for the loss of your friend Mr Kitters hug.gif

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03-19-2013, 09:08 PM #17
Kal Incognito Anonymous
 
It sucks, man.

I talked to her last week and it wasn't a good day for her at all. Felt helpless.

I was overwhelmed with visual stimuli of addicts throughout that week.

Sometimes all we can do is be there. Outside of that the lines get blurry and traditions, manners, whatever it is keeps us from reaching out.

Maybe it's a naive false hope that they'll get better on their own.

Keep the guilt at bay, Smash.

03-19-2013, 09:12 PM #18
Mister Kitters (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻
Posts:518 Threads:52 Joined:Mar 2013
(03-19-2013, 09:08 PM)Kal Wrote:  It sucks, man.

I talked to her last week and it wasn't a good day for her at all. Felt helpless.

I was overwhelmed with visual stimuli of addicts throughout that week.

Sometimes all we can do is be there. Outside of that the lines get blurry and traditions, manners, whatever it is keeps us from reaching out.

Maybe it's a naive false hope that they'll get better on their own.

Keep the guilt at bay, Smash.


Missing our morning chats dude.. where are you hanging out at these days?

I question the general assumption that felines are inherently deficient in the area of grammar and sentence structure.
03-19-2013, 09:21 PM #19
Kal Incognito Anonymous
 
(03-19-2013, 09:12 PM)Mister Kitters Wrote:  
(03-19-2013, 09:08 PM)Kal Wrote:  It sucks, man.

I talked to her last week and it wasn't a good day for her at all. Felt helpless.

I was overwhelmed with visual stimuli of addicts throughout that week.

Sometimes all we can do is be there. Outside of that the lines get blurry and traditions, manners, whatever it is keeps us from reaching out.

Maybe it's a naive false hope that they'll get better on their own.

Keep the guilt at bay, Smash.


Missing our morning chats dude.. where are you hanging out at these days?

I'm still on Skype most nights

I went crawling back to the other place because too many stayed and I care for them.

It's sort of like being in the mob.

Remember the scene from The Sopranos?

Sil is in Artie's restaurant and says, "Where did they get this bread? The bread museum?"

I go for the company.
03-19-2013, 09:29 PM #20
Mister Kitters (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻
Posts:518 Threads:52 Joined:Mar 2013
(03-19-2013, 09:21 PM)Kal Wrote:  
(03-19-2013, 09:12 PM)Mister Kitters Wrote:  
(03-19-2013, 09:08 PM)Kal Wrote:  It sucks, man.

I talked to her last week and it wasn't a good day for her at all. Felt helpless.

I was overwhelmed with visual stimuli of addicts throughout that week.

Sometimes all we can do is be there. Outside of that the lines get blurry and traditions, manners, whatever it is keeps us from reaching out.

Maybe it's a naive false hope that they'll get better on their own.

Keep the guilt at bay, Smash.


Missing our morning chats dude.. where are you hanging out at these days?

I'm still on Skype most nights

I went crawling back to the other place because too many stayed and I care for them.

It's sort of like being in the mob.

Remember the scene from The Sopranos?

Sil is in Artie's restaurant and says, "Where did they get this bread? The bread museum?"

I go for the company.


Yeah.. admittedly that is the only part that sucks.

I think it's extremely ƒükkêd up what Disturbed did to me.. I had nothing to do with any of that bullshit and I actually hadn't been on skype in over two weeks when it happened. Most people know that..

And then the whole putting my picture with a picture of someone else and associating me with the "crimes" of that person..

I actually got death threats with my name and address in them emailed to me.. I went to the police.

I was also getting DDoS'd myself on a daily basis.. until I reset my IP and stayed off of skype completely.

I question the general assumption that felines are inherently deficient in the area of grammar and sentence structure.
03-19-2013, 09:29 PM #21
Kal Incognito Anonymous
 
This is how I will remember Karen...

this past summer a couple of us were in chat on a beautiful afternoon for most of the country. I was outside enjoying the day cammed up enjoying one of the most perfect days of the year.

Happy.

Karen was also outside on cam with her brother. Smiling, eating, laughing. Living. She was at her absolute best that day.

And that's how I will remember her. And it gives me tears of joy.
03-19-2013, 09:31 PM #22
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Posts:10 Threads:1 Joined:Mar 2013
(03-19-2013, 09:08 PM)Kal Wrote:  It sucks, man.

I talked to her last week and it wasn't a good day for her at all. Felt helpless.

I was overwhelmed with visual stimuli of addicts throughout that week.

Sometimes all we can do is be there. Outside of that the lines get blurry and traditions, manners, whatever it is keeps us from reaching out.

Maybe it's a naive false hope that they'll get better on their own.

Keep the guilt at bay, Smash.


Kal I'm very sorry for you're loss too.
I know you cared deeply for Karen. All of us chatters did. I think all of us felt helpless. We wanted so bad to help this broken girl. We wanted things to get better, we wanted her to be happy again.
At the time when she was crying out I didn't know what to say or do. I wanted to help but I didn't know how.

I'm glad you came back, I know things have been difficult there lately and in time things will change, these forums go through the good times and bad times.
03-19-2013, 09:33 PM #23
Dramaqueen Member
Posts:10 Threads:1 Joined:Mar 2013
(03-19-2013, 09:29 PM)Kal Wrote:  This is how I will remember Karen...

this past summer a couple of us were in chat on a beautiful afternoon for most of the country. I was outside enjoying the day cammed up enjoying one of the most perfect days of the year.

Happy.

Karen was also outside on cam with her brother. Smiling, eating, laughing. Living. She was at her absolute best that day.

And that's how I will remember her. And it gives me tears of joy.


hug.gif Beautiful Kal. A beautiful memory for a beautiful person.
03-19-2013, 09:35 PM #24
Octo Mother Superior
Posts:42,615 Threads:1,469 Joined:Feb 2011
(03-19-2013, 09:29 PM)Kal Wrote:  This is how I will remember Karen...

this past summer a couple of us were in chat on a beautiful afternoon for most of the country. I was outside enjoying the day cammed up enjoying one of the most perfect days of the year.

Happy.

Karen was also outside on cam with her brother. Smiling, eating, laughing. Living. She was at her absolute best that day.

And that's how I will remember her. And it gives me tears of joy.


That sounds like a lovely memory to keep and cherish. hug.gif
03-19-2013, 09:38 PM #25
Kal Incognito Anonymous
 
(03-19-2013, 09:29 PM)Mister Kitters Wrote:  
(03-19-2013, 09:21 PM)Kal Wrote:  
(03-19-2013, 09:12 PM)Mister Kitters Wrote:  
(03-19-2013, 09:08 PM)Kal Wrote:  It sucks, man.

I talked to her last week and it wasn't a good day for her at all. Felt helpless.

I was overwhelmed with visual stimuli of addicts throughout that week.

Sometimes all we can do is be there. Outside of that the lines get blurry and traditions, manners, whatever it is keeps us from reaching out.

Maybe it's a naive false hope that they'll get better on their own.

Keep the guilt at bay, Smash.


Missing our morning chats dude.. where are you hanging out at these days?

I'm still on Skype most nights

I went crawling back to the other place because too many stayed and I care for them.

It's sort of like being in the mob.

Remember the scene from The Sopranos?

Sil is in Artie's restaurant and says, "Where did they get this bread? The bread museum?"

I go for the company.


Yeah.. admittedly that is the only part that sucks.

I think it's extremely ƒükkêd up what Disturbed did to me.. I had nothing to do with any of that bullshit and I actually hadn't been on skype in over two weeks when it happened. Most people know that..

And then the whole putting my picture with a picture of someone else and associating me with the "crimes" of that person..

I actually got death threats with my name and address in them emailed to me.. I went to the police.

I was also getting DDoS'd myself on a daily basis.. until I reset my IP and stayed off of skype completely.


I agree it was ridiculous.

I'm hoping that with time some semblance of proper reasoning will return. And once tempers subside those parties involved can talk it out like we all usually do and come to an understanding.

There is a reason so many things are happening. We could turn things around and realize that there's something much larger at stake here.

The whole community hangs in the balance. Just look how many new sites have appeared and how divided the community has become.

That alone should be proof enough that something much larger and organized is pulling the strings.
03-19-2013, 09:40 PM #26
Mister Kitters (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻
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And I should say here that when everyone else slammed the door in my face.. JayRodney and Octo welcomed me to their forum with open arms and let me be judged by the merit of actions.. they were probably a little apprehensive given all the rumors but they took a chance and trusted me and let me become a part of their community..

Not to get all sappy.. but that meant a lot to me and no matter what forum I go to.. Kritterbox will always be my home..

I am extremely appreciative of their kindness toward me.. they are both some really stand up people.

And the regulars on the forum are awesome too.. a lot of intelligent wit.. just seems to be a little more mature of a crowd.. but they still love to have a good time and laugh it up.

Plus.. when have you EVER seen this many people with cat avatars?!

So.. let me just say..

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I question the general assumption that felines are inherently deficient in the area of grammar and sentence structure.
03-19-2013, 09:44 PM #27
JayRodney ⓐⓛⓘⓔⓝ
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hi5.gif Thanks 12.gif In the end, it's the cat avatars. chuckle.gif

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03-19-2013, 09:51 PM #28
JollyRoger Incognito Anonymous
 
(03-19-2013, 01:57 AM)Mister Kitters Wrote:  I'll just come out and say it.. a good friend of mine overdosed recently and died. A friend who I backed away from because of my own problems with drugs in the past.

I limited contact with her to LOP chat (we used to talk on the phone a bit, and planned to meet up a few times but never did) and recently found out she had been threatening suicide so I pulled some info on her and got her home telephone number and home address (easily accessible since her mother had recently passed and her information was in her obituary) and planned to contact someone. I knew she needed help.. I planned to call the police or possibly call and speak with her father so she could get some help. She was terribly depressed, and understandably so.

She seemed to be getting a little bit better.. so I never made the call.. and then I lost contact all together for reasons many may know regarding my account on LOP.

Obviously.. I no longer get on LOP and had all but forgotten about my friends problems.. until I found out the news while browsing the threads over on LOP (without an account).. and now she is gone.

This is not about me.. I am not feeling sorry for myself.. I do a feel a little guilty.. but this is about Karen..

I know that I, at least, could have done more.. I know many of us could have..


I get really sick of this site crashing on me when I'm trying to type something. This is the only site I have problems with.

Anyway....

It's not your fault.

I had a friend call me for help and by the time I got there, he had used a shotgun to do the deed. It was horrible. I blamed myself for years for not making it in time. He had even called the crisis hotline and they put him on hold for 20 mins. By the time they got back on the line, it was all over. And so was he.

He made his own choices. I was just worried that because i wasn't fast enough, I caused him to go to Hell.

My pastor told me, God understands mental distress and illness.

It wasn't my fault but I still have that memory.... it happened on April 15th, 1990. Tax day. This had nothing to do with taxes. It was over the break up of him and his girlfriend.
03-19-2013, 10:09 PM #29
Octo Mother Superior
Posts:42,615 Threads:1,469 Joined:Feb 2011
Sorry to hear that JollyR. It's not a legacy I would want to leave behind, but in the darkest of hours we don't even believe there's light. I hope these people have found peace.

I also don't get why our site keeps crashing on you.
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03-19-2013, 10:14 PM #30
JollyRoger Incognito Anonymous
 
(03-19-2013, 10:09 PM)Octo Wrote:  Sorry to hear that JollyR. It's not a legacy I would want to leave behind, but in the darkest of hours we don't even believe there's light. I hope these people have found peace.

I also don't get why our site keeps crashing on you.


Neither do I. I know it's not your fault. If you guys put ads on this site lately, it could be interfering with my AdBlock software. I turned it off and got on and then logged off and turned it back on again and I still got on. So, I don't think it's that.



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