(06-26-2014, 07:15 AM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote: Sorry if I ruffle anyones feathers,or get anyones panties all wrapped up in a bunch,or rub someone the wrong way,but I say what I think and so like it or not admit it or not, the sad and sorry state for most every married guy that I know and talk to around here is,its her way or the highway for them and yeah thats what I call real true friggin love alright and if they dare stop bringing home the bacon they stop getting the beaver,so in other words most of those men are forced to buy their sexx wielded at them like a weapon of control one way or another and so most of those women are prostitutes leasing their overrated sexx to the highest bidder and no not exactly the kind of demonized street girl who stands out on the corner in plain sight,but hookers none the less just the friggin same...
There's hope once you feel comfortable once again.
I've had phases where I took some time off, and one terrible day after losing a job I met my wife for the first time.
She actually annoyed me the first time we met, lol.
But she wanted to raise a family, as did I but with the proper person and were tired of drama and bs.
She'd tell you I wore the pants, be happy about it.
Funny how things evolve though, I was the bread winner and she stayed at home. Now she works, sometimes long hours and I stay at home to watch the kids and run my website.
We both talked about this thread today actually, I teased her for becoming more dominant after our roles reversed, and its true, sometimes I laugh or give her a hard time when she gets going now.