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Study finds women are more controlling and aggressive towards their partners than men
06-26-2014, 12:00 AM #16
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(06-25-2014, 09:46 PM)Octo Wrote:  Or even better, let's hope she found someone equally passionate to share her callings.

Possibly, but under the topic of dominance, 50% or so marriages end in divorce in the United States roughly.

Do you think there is something there related to roles?

I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
06-26-2014, 12:36 AM #17
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My opinion is as qualified as yours in this matter, I can only speak for myself. I don't know anything about roles, I just know how to be me. But to be able to do that you need to know who that is. Nobody else can make you happy, that's something you need to work on by yourself within. That's not meaning JR doesn't make me happier than anything, just that nobody else can fix your problems. I think a lot of issues come from women's unrealistic expectations spending years for instance planning a fairytale wedding, not spending any time contemplating marriage or the endless days of cooking, dishes, laundry, bills etc. etc. that makes out the majority of every day life. They dream of changing that man into something he wasn't when she fell in love... 13.gif I can't say I understand that sort of behavior
06-26-2014, 12:45 AM #18
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I stopped reading at intimate terrorists rofl.gif

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06-26-2014, 12:49 AM #19
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(06-26-2014, 12:36 AM)Octo Wrote:  My opinion is as qualified as yours in this matter, I can only speak for myself. I don't know anything about roles, I just know how to be me. But to be able to do that you need to know who that is. Nobody else can make you happy, that's something you need to work on by yourself within. That's not meaning JR doesn't make me happier than anything, just that nobody else can fix your problems. I think a lot of issues come from women's unrealistic expectations spending years for instance planning a fairytale wedding, not spending any time contemplating marriage or the endless days of cooking, dishes, laundry, bills etc. etc. that makes out the majority of every day life. They dream of changing that man into something he wasn't when she fell in love... 13.gif I can't say I understand that sort of behavior

I'm completely happy.

But simply, I find roles naturally occur and to often be complimentary.

Nothing abusive or obedient about them.

But I've been both the leader and follower.

Been the bread winner, and currently am stay at home father.

I'm just fascinated in interaction sometimes, one reason I studied psychology, I've never dated someone like myself, nor have any desire, it just seems that someone naturally becomes the more dominant over time.

And I'm fine either way typically.

I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
06-26-2014, 12:58 AM #20
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Well, JR and I are pretty much alike. Sometimes he takes the lead, sometimes I do, just depending on the situation or task. But god help him if he tried to dominate me damned.gif

I have also no interest in dominating anyone. Not much....
06-26-2014, 12:59 AM #21
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(06-26-2014, 12:58 AM)Octo Wrote:  Well, JR and I are pretty much alike. Sometimes he takes the lead, sometimes I do, just depending on the situation or task. But god help him if he tried to dominate me damned.gif

I have also no interest in dominating anyone. Not much....

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I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
06-26-2014, 01:27 AM #22
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I wear the pants in my house.

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When she lets me...

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I am not your carpet ride I am the sky
I am not your blowing wind, I am the lightning
I am not your autumn moon, I am the night
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06-26-2014, 01:53 AM #23
Octo Mother Superior
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We knew that chuckle.gif
06-26-2014, 01:53 AM #24
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06-26-2014, 02:50 AM #25
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Abusive women know they can and so many of them do get away with abusing men way more than men could ever dream of getting away with abusing women because for several decades the courts and the laws and the cops are all hell bent upon demonizing and financially screwing as many men as possible a virtual modern day warlock hunt all around us continuously and modern day men are immediately deemed and doomed guilty and forced to financially prove their innocence if they can afford to,whenever they are accused by any women for doing anything,even if those men did nothing wrong and thats just warped and twisted and true...

More Than 40% Of Domestic Violence Victims Are Male > http://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/...c-violence

25 Domestically Abused Men Reveal Their Horrifying Stories > http://thoughtcatalog.com/hok-leahcim/20...g-stories/

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06-26-2014, 03:06 AM #26
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(06-26-2014, 01:27 AM)Kreeper Wrote:  I wear the pants in my house.

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When she lets me...

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that's our house lmao.gif you know you have the right partner when things go south..we have been thru it all during the years..

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06-26-2014, 07:15 AM #27
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Sorry if I ruffle anyones feathers,or get anyones panties all wrapped up in a bunch,or rub someone the wrong way,but I say what I think and so like it or not admit it or not, the sad and sorry state for most every married guy that I know and talk to around here is,its her way or the highway for them and yeah thats what I call real true friggin love alright and if they dare stop bringing home the bacon they stop getting the beaver,so in other words most of those men are forced to buy their sexx wielded at them like a weapon of control one way or another and so most of those women are prostitutes leasing their overrated sexx to the highest bidder and no not exactly the kind of demonized street girl who stands out on the corner in plain sight,but hookers none the less just the friggin same...
06-26-2014, 07:25 AM #28
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In the relationships I've been in, I've been weak and strong. No one likes weak. Those relationships always went south.

Whenever I stand up and sometimes put my foot down, the women I've been with respected me a helluva lot more.

I'm all for being respectful to women. They have a lot to offer, and even more to say. ;-)

But when they start majorly manipulating....well I'm getting better at seeing that coming. Tony don't play...nobody puts Baby in a corner. A little manipulation is cool, you know the sweet kind that both parties enjoy (and I'm not talking sex here.)

Not that this is the be all and end all on the subject...it just my two cents on a million dollar subject.

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06-26-2014, 10:21 AM #29
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(06-26-2014, 07:15 AM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  Sorry if I ruffle anyones feathers,or get anyones panties all wrapped up in a bunch,or rub someone the wrong way,but I say what I think and so like it or not admit it or not, the sad and sorry state for most every married guy that I know and talk to around here is,its her way or the highway for them and yeah thats what I call real true friggin love alright and if they dare stop bringing home the bacon they stop getting the beaver,so in other words most of those men are forced to buy their sexx wielded at them like a weapon of control one way or another and so most of those women are prostitutes leasing their overrated sexx to the highest bidder and no not exactly the kind of demonized street girl who stands out on the corner in plain sight,but hookers none the less just the friggin same...

There's hope once you feel comfortable once again.

I've had phases where I took some time off, and one terrible day after losing a job I met my wife for the first time.

She actually annoyed me the first time we met, lol.

But she wanted to raise a family, as did I but with the proper person and were tired of drama and bs.

She'd tell you I wore the pants, be happy about it.

Funny how things evolve though, I was the bread winner and she stayed at home. Now she works, sometimes long hours and I stay at home to watch the kids and run my website.

We both talked about this thread today actually, I teased her for becoming more dominant after our roles reversed, and its true, sometimes I laugh or give her a hard time when she gets going now.

I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
06-26-2014, 01:28 PM #30
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Thanks guys for sharing your stories. I don't think anybody starts a long term relationship knowing all about how it is. These are things we learn, develop and create along the way. Maybe there are roles, I don't really think in those terms. I think first and foremost we need to focus on being decent human beings. Being of a particular gender shouldn't justify being an asshole or bitch. That just poops all over gender equality.

From Octo's book: Rule #1 - Don't be an asshole/bitch.

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