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Study finds women are more controlling and aggressive towards their partners than men
06-26-2014, 01:44 PM #31
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I find myself in complete agreement with Octo here.
Aren't all those things self-evident?

But yeah - I still had to find out the hard way.

Oh, the women I've shared my existence with so far
- they've all been absolutely terrific...umh...witches, chuckle.gif
all of them. Sort of impossible to fit into any stereotype,
really. They at the core of the Awakening.

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06-26-2014, 04:35 PM #32
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Even if I had seven liberal girlfriends or seven loyal wives all catering to my every morning whim and night desire every day of the week I would still think and feel exactly the same way as the words I posted above...

Heres one of the best human drama movies I've ever seen...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Faithless_(2000_film)

06-26-2014, 04:50 PM #33
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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I have doubts about this study and its results. First, they questioned college students which does represent the broader population, secondly young college women have to be more assertive (aka aggressive depending upon which gender you happen to be) in the academic and work environment because, as per usual, they are put upon to prove they are just as good (or in the work environment - better - meaning doing all the work) as men. 13.gif

Also - studying women in prison ??? like they would not be violent to begin with?

"She said other research also looked at men in prisons and women in refuges, rather than typical members of the public.

The study team were surprised at the level of violence shown by some women, revealed in answers to an anonymous questionnaire."


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Quote:Psychologists at the University of Cumbria questioned 1,104 young men and women using a scale of behaviour which ranged from shouting and insulting to pushing, beating and using weapons.

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06-26-2014, 04:58 PM #34
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Millions of you tube views for this wonderful song that strangely makes me miss and long for a place in space and time that I never even lived within unless of course our eternal reincarnation is real and I think it probably is (*-*)

06-26-2014, 05:05 PM #35
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Quote: Baby, if I made you mad for something I might have said
Please, let's forget the past, the future looks bright ahead
Don't be cruel to a heart that's true

06-26-2014, 05:11 PM #36
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Over 65,000,000 views for this perhaps Elvis Presley's best song (*-*)



Quote: We're caught in a trap
I can't walk out
Because I love you too much baby

Why can't you see
What you're doing to me
When you don't believe a word I say?

We can't go on together
With suspicious minds (suspicious minds)
And we can't build our dreams
On suspicious minds

So, if an old friend I know
Stops by to say hello
Would I still see suspicion in your eyes?

Here we go again
Asking where I've been
You can't see these tears are real
I'm crying (Yes I'm crying)

We can't go on together
With suspicious minds (suspicious minds)
And be can't build our dreams
On suspicious minds

Oh let our love survive
Or dry the tears from your eyes
Let's don't let a good thing die
When honey, you know
I've never lied to you
06-26-2014, 05:16 PM #37
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Quote: You look like an angel
Walk like an angel
Talk like an angel
But I got wise

You're the devil in disguise
Oh yes, you are the devil in disguise
You fooled me with your kisses
You cheated and you schemed
Heaven knows how you lied to me
You're not the way you seemed

You look like an angel
Walk like an angel
Talk like an angel
But I got wise

You're the devil in disguise
Oh yes, you are the devil in disguise
I thought that I was in heaven
But I was sure surprised
Heaven help me, I didn't see
The devil in your eyes
06-26-2014, 06:00 PM #38
Octo Mother Superior
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(06-26-2014, 04:50 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I have doubts about this study and its results. First, they questioned college students which does represent the broader population, secondly young college women have to be more assertive (aka aggressive depending upon which gender you happen to be) in the academic and work environment because, as per usual, they are put upon to prove they are just as good (or in the work environment - better - meaning doing all the work) as men. 13.gif

Also - studying women in prison ??? like they would not be violent to begin with?

"She said other research also looked at men in prisons and women in refuges, rather than typical members of the public.

The study team were surprised at the level of violence shown by some women, revealed in answers to an anonymous questionnaire."


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/a...z35knccNKX
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Quote:Psychologists at the University of Cumbria questioned 1,104 young men and women using a scale of behaviour which ranged from shouting and insulting to pushing, beating and using weapons.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/a...z35kk1g900
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There are so many ways to do these types of studies. I think in a relationship where one partner tries to control the other, women are at least equally guilty as men.
06-26-2014, 06:04 PM #39
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(06-26-2014, 06:00 PM)Octo Wrote:  
(06-26-2014, 04:50 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I have doubts about this study and its results. First, they questioned college students which does represent the broader population, secondly young college women have to be more assertive (aka aggressive depending upon which gender you happen to be) in the academic and work environment because, as per usual, they are put upon to prove they are just as good (or in the work environment - better - meaning doing all the work) as men. 13.gif

Also - studying women in prison ??? like they would not be violent to begin with?

"She said other research also looked at men in prisons and women in refuges, rather than typical members of the public.

The study team were surprised at the level of violence shown by some women, revealed in answers to an anonymous questionnaire."


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/a...z35knccNKX
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Quote:Psychologists at the University of Cumbria questioned 1,104 young men and women using a scale of behaviour which ranged from shouting and insulting to pushing, beating and using weapons.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/a...z35kk1g900
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There are so many ways to do these type of studies. I think in a relationship where one partner tries to control the other, women are at least equally guilty as men.

I misworded my original post, it should have read 'does NOT reflect the broader population'. Anyway, I would agree with you Octo but depending upon the country and it's culture (non-oppression of women), but then it's only one study and I usually try to find more of the same from other researchers to get an overall picture.
06-26-2014, 06:11 PM #40
ezrin Incognito Anonymous
 
(06-26-2014, 01:28 PM)Octo Wrote:  Thanks guys for sharing your stories. I don't think anybody starts a long term relationship knowing all about how it is. These are things we learn, develop and create along the way. Maybe there are roles, I don't really think in those terms. I think first and foremost we need to focus on being decent human beings. Being of a particular gender shouldn't justify being an asshole or bitch. That just poops all over gender equality.

From Octo's book: Rule #1 - Don't be an asshole/bitch.

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06-26-2014, 06:31 PM #41
Octo Mother Superior
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it's glue.

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06-26-2014, 06:51 PM #42
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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I think we could all use anger management tips - here's a good one - except that it may open the flood gates for the other person to start in with the ..."You...

Quote:Use "I" statements to describe the problem. Be respectful and specific. For example, say, "I'm upset that you left the table without offering to help with the dishes," instead of, "You never do any housework."

http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-living...45434?pg=1
06-26-2014, 07:13 PM #43
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Who today makes beautiful songs like this with such emotional depth and instrumental finesse...nobody...thats who...in other words...no one...

06-26-2014, 07:20 PM #44
Octo Mother Superior
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(06-26-2014, 06:51 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I think we could all use anger management tips - here's a good one - except that it may open the flood gates for the other person to start in with the ..."You...

Quote:Use "I" statements to describe the problem. Be respectful and specific. For example, say, "I'm upset that you left the table without offering to help with the dishes," instead of, "You never do any housework."

http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-living...45434?pg=1

Yes I agree. I think it's important to identify the problems as they come along so that they don't pile up and become a monster. Nagging for instance can be a symptom of such accumulated little things. You lose track of what the problem really is and it causes resentment and bad vibes. My 2 cents.
06-26-2014, 07:43 PM #45
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Quite simply one of the greatest songs ever made...




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