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10-22-2012, 07:55 PM #31
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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(10-22-2012, 07:40 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  It certainly is hard to know what to do in situations like that Shadow, but I would keep checking up on her and all you can really do is be there and listen to her as she gets it all out of her system and tries to make sense of it all.


Thanks US hug.gif but this is what I've been doing for a year now, seems all I've accomplished is worse than nothing at all. She only gets worse. She comes to my gate and whistles, yells "HEY!! Get over here! NOW!!" She stops in at my work and wants to tell me about her woes, she calls me at home, she calls me at work, she comes over sobbing, leaves nearly incoherent messages on my phone almost every day. She leaves messages for me at work. I invited her for thanksgiving dinner and (in front of my daughter) she hits on me. Not the first time. Now this implied suicide. How often will she pull that? And is she really suicidal or just using me?
10-22-2012, 08:06 PM #32
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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(10-22-2012, 07:52 PM)Cynicalabsurdance Wrote:  the 2 children are a " LONG WAYS AWAY " for a reason .

the character type is commonly referred to as : Attention Junkie

over loaded with emotional
and almost totally devoid of the temporal

they tend to play out drama's in a pattern until they find the one drama that works the most and best on sympathetic others .

when one victim of they're theatrics tires of all the drama's

they seek out another co-dependent and run the program over again until that person
is drained,,,, and distance themselves from her .

the Pattern repeats yet again

they love to "FEEL" their pain ,, and share it .

When lonely ,,, they will enhance the feeling of loneliness and then draw on one of their dramas ,,

and as she has done again to you ,,, call out and draw in a victim ( You )

once the drama has brought about the desired reaction and results

they are temporarily satiated for the moment ,,,, and go on as though nothing ever happen.

she is seeking a permanent co-dependent through seeking a male mate to share her
emotional insanity with ,,,

Driven by her Self induced loneliness , she was suckered by a Con

it will repeat ,,

she KNEW the possibility was high that she'd be ripped off ,,


she also knew that being ripped off would bring on emotional distress ,,,

and she CRAVES that " FEELING " of distress and all the good little tears that come with it .


that is why she sent the money to him

she paid to feel the pain ,,, and to her ,,, it is worth it,,, or she would not have done it .


She is a Manipulator of others.


as a small child ,,, she found the easiest way to get otherwise lacking attention ,,

was to create a sad drama ,, which manipulated her parents into giving her attention

the more intense scene she created

the more intense the reaction out of others she received .

she got you out in the cold weather and over to her ( the thought of getting another
to suffer through shït to come help her , gives her a feeling of worth )


when you shock slapped her ,,, she kept on to escalate your reaction


you gave her what she desired : HER DRAMATIC SOAP OPERA SCENE to reconfirm her self worth and value to others .



There is no cure for what she suffers ,,, for the diseased is self generated and she hones it's skill with each ever escalating dramatic event she creates .


These people are parasites on others

energy vampires who drain others .
Family gave up and made an exit ,,, ( escape ) from her draining them ,,,

She can make it all on her on
they are intelligent survivors ,,,

and have only one singular need out of others ,,,, to drain others with they're dramas.


Awww ğck !!! Everything you say is absolute truth. I knew it, guess I just needed to have it clarified. This:

Quote:they are temporarily satiated for the moment ,,,, and go on as though nothing ever happen.

damned.gif Sorta surprised me she seemed to feel no remorse for her behavior. And you're right, I have fueled her drama by slapping her, now she'll feed off that and tell everyone who will listen how awful I was to her when she was suicidal and sucker them in too. She's started already.

So CA, you're so intuitive, how do I deal with it? sil vous plait?









10-22-2012, 08:12 PM #33
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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(10-22-2012, 08:05 PM)Cynicalabsurdance Wrote:  believe my post above yours Shadow

it is very true


she has a Victim ( You )

like a toy to play with



The Cure ?

believe me ,,, she will cling to you like a junkie clings to his dope .


shake her with her truth ,,

then call in proper authorities

and while you are at it ,,,

announce that you never want to be bothered again by her or you'll file charges


She has you now


she will not let you go easy


this is Popcorn worthy .


Oh I believe your post above, first thing that's made sense in this whole episode. I thought the lack of sympathy I showed her yesterday was enough but probably not. Is she aware of what she's doing, do you think CA? I mean is she conscienously doing this, or is it a survival mechanism?

Thank you!!!
10-23-2012, 01:04 AM #34
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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She may be having a nervous breakdown, just saying.
10-23-2012, 03:15 AM #35
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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(10-23-2012, 01:04 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  She may be having a nervous breakdown, just saying.


Perhaps. I've connected her with people who can help her.
10-23-2012, 03:17 AM #36
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(10-23-2012, 03:15 AM)Shadow Wrote:  
(10-23-2012, 01:04 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  She may be having a nervous breakdown, just saying.


Perhaps. I've connected her with people who can help her.


Good move.
10-23-2012, 03:17 AM #37
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(10-23-2012, 03:15 AM)Cynicalabsurdance Wrote:  The Psychopath does not feel emotion in the way normal people do .

they have to create situations of extreme intense drama and ,,

never mind ,

she is not having a nervous breakdown , they are steely nerved .

Obsessive/compulsive

Self destructive and dangerous


self destructive but not to the point of total destruction via suicide .

I'm pretty sure when Shadow first spoke of her about a year ago ,,

i stated : Tell her to call 1-800-rent-a-mom and rent a Mom to snivel to .

I am dead serious about the disorder

i grew up with an older sister who was and still is .

then Leslie


and countless thousands of people throughout my travels.

I put up with the sister for 14 years

and Leslie for 13 years

pure hell they do create for anyone they can draw into the web with them .

and it is always a case of us caring people whom they get their claws and fangs into .

Because of our compassion , we are easily drawn in by their Woe is Me Dramatics .


I learned, a long time ago, Cy how to separate the wheat from the chaff.
10-23-2012, 03:21 AM #38
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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(10-23-2012, 03:17 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I learned, a long time ago, Cy how to separate the wheat from the chaff.


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