(10-22-2012, 07:52 PM)Cynicalabsurdance Wrote: the 2 children are a " LONG WAYS AWAY " for a reason .
the character type is commonly referred to as : Attention Junkie
over loaded with emotional
and almost totally devoid of the temporal
they tend to play out drama's in a pattern until they find the one drama that works the most and best on sympathetic others .
when one victim of they're theatrics tires of all the drama's
they seek out another co-dependent and run the program over again until that person
is drained,,,, and distance themselves from her .
the Pattern repeats yet again
they love to "FEEL" their pain ,, and share it .
When lonely ,,, they will enhance the feeling of loneliness and then draw on one of their dramas ,,
and as she has done again to you ,,, call out and draw in a victim ( You )
once the drama has brought about the desired reaction and results
they are temporarily satiated for the moment ,,,, and go on as though nothing ever happen.
she is seeking a permanent co-dependent through seeking a male mate to share her
emotional insanity with ,,,
Driven by her Self induced loneliness , she was suckered by a Con
it will repeat ,,
she KNEW the possibility was high that she'd be ripped off ,,
she also knew that being ripped off would bring on emotional distress ,,,
and she CRAVES that " FEELING " of distress and all the good little tears that come with it .
that is why she sent the money to him
she paid to feel the pain ,,, and to her ,,, it is worth it,,, or she would not have done it .
She is a Manipulator of others.
as a small child ,,, she found the easiest way to get otherwise lacking attention ,,
was to create a sad drama ,, which manipulated her parents into giving her attention
the more intense scene she created
the more intense the reaction out of others she received .
she got you out in the cold weather and over to her ( the thought of getting another
to suffer through shït to come help her , gives her a feeling of worth )
when you shock slapped her ,,, she kept on to escalate your reaction
you gave her what she desired : HER DRAMATIC SOAP OPERA SCENE to reconfirm her self worth and value to others .
There is no cure for what she suffers ,,, for the diseased is self generated and she hones it's skill with each ever escalating dramatic event she creates .
These people are parasites on others
energy vampires who drain others .
Family gave up and made an exit ,,, ( escape ) from her draining them ,,,
She can make it all on her on
they are intelligent survivors ,,,
and have only one singular need out of others ,,,, to drain others with they're dramas.
Awww ƒück !!! Everything you say is absolute truth. I knew it, guess I just needed to have it clarified. This:
Quote:they are temporarily satiated for the moment ,,,, and go on as though nothing ever happen.
Sorta surprised me she seemed to feel no remorse for her behavior. And you're right, I have fueled her drama by slapping her, now she'll feed off that and tell everyone who will listen how awful I was to her when she was suicidal and sucker them in too. She's started already.
So CA, you're so intuitive, how do I deal with it? sil vous plait?