(05-18-2017, 12:15 PM)Strigoi Wrote: They get sent home or detention here, but no paddling. Is that still allowed in the states?
i dont think so.back oh gosh, twenty years ago, i actually sent in a handwritten note that said idk what your policies are but you do not have my permission to spank my child for any reason. please call me at home if there is any trouble.
some schools still do, elementary schools i think...
i was paddled once at school and later at home when i school was over.
i told myself i would never ever be a mom like i had and i havent.
and you know my kids actually like me?
it wasnt in my heart to hurt them whenever i was angry at something they did.
so i have always treated them as friends.
and it has worked.
they respect me, they love me.
they are the nicest people you will meet too.
im so proud.
it may work for some instances but in general i treated my children how i would want to be treated and talked to.
and i was fricking RIGHT, bitches!!
so yall say whatever you want.
i did it right
they didnt NEED spankings left and right.