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Waiting for a "soulmate"
09-21-2014, 11:59 PM #1
americanpatriot Member
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One thing that drives me insane regarding modern society is how some people think that there's only this one special person out there for them in the world and they at willing to wait for them. Meanwhile all these other potential "soul mates" pass them by because they weren't paying attention. I believe that everyone has multiple people that they are compatible with in life. Sometimes we just miss them or we never end up connecting with them. It's just stupid how some people fall into this way of thinking that their previous abusive douchebag ex was the only one for them. There's a whole world full of people out there so I just don't understand how this way of thinking comes about. I'm not sure how common this way of thinking is shown on TV these days since I don't watch any tv but I'm sure it's still being projected out to people so they will remain hopeless and depressed. No easier way to take down a country than to make much of the population depressed.
09-22-2014, 12:08 AM #2
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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I agree that we have multiple soul mates and I recall seeing on TV - it was about a couple that went to a psychic or a spiritual retreat and the first thing the psychic tells them is that they are not soul mates. Well, my first thought was how the hell does she know and why can't we have multiple soul mates. Any way, the man's girlfriend started sobbing uncontrollably while the man looked away from her with a hardened look on his face, and it broke my heart.
09-22-2014, 01:01 AM #3
Octo Mother Superior
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Oh I think there are many "soulmates" for us. I think what's keeping us from finding them is unrealistic expectations in a shallow society.
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09-22-2014, 01:24 AM #4
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(09-22-2014, 12:08 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I agree that we have multiple soul mates and I recall seeing on TV - it was about a couple that went to a psychic or a spiritual retreat and the first thing the psychic tells them is that they are not soul mates. Well, my first thought was how the hell does she know and why can't we have multiple soul mates. Any way, the man's girlfriend started sobbing uncontrollably while the man looked away from her with a hardened look on his face, and it broke my heart.

Why would anyone take the word of a so called psychic to make important decisions about their life? They should listen to their hearts rather than the bullshit of some
mentally ill attention seeker!
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09-22-2014, 01:26 AM #5
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(09-22-2014, 01:01 AM)Octo Wrote:  Oh I think there are many "soulmates" for us. I think what's keeping us from finding them is unrealistic expectations in a shallow society.

Oh yes I'm glad someone said this. Unrealistic expectations play a huge part. Some people expect their " soul mate" to be perfect in every way. For those who don't know, no one in real life is that way. We all have flaws and no one is perfect. Yet through the media or some other means people have become convinced that it is okay to turn away a possible love connection because the individual is not the ideal person they had in mind. Thus a relationship that could have lasted a long time never even begins.
09-22-2014, 02:33 AM #6
Octo Mother Superior
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Yes, it's a pretty sad state of affairs.
09-23-2014, 12:37 AM #7
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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Sorry to say it but I think women are more demanding of perfection, brought up on Sleeping Beauty and Snow White etc. They want a Prandsome Hince and he doesn't exist. Fairy tales are a good way to cripple a child's mind. My daughter got the 'Paper Bag Princess' rofl.gif
09-23-2014, 12:41 AM #8
Accidental Stoner Member
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09-23-2014, 12:44 AM #9
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(09-23-2014, 12:37 AM)Shadow Wrote:  Sorry to say it but I think women are more demanding of perfection, brought up on Sleeping Beauty and Snow White etc. They want a Prandsome Hince and he doesn't exist. Fairy tales are a good way to cripple a child's mind. My daughter got the 'Paper Bag Princess' rofl.gif

I'd say the same unrealistic expectations exist for men...sleeping beauty (hmmm) and all that.
09-23-2014, 12:49 AM #10
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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(09-23-2014, 12:44 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I'd say the same unrealistic expectations exist for men...sleeping beauty (hmmm) and all that.

Yes, excellent point, 'cept maybe not so much 'sleeping beauty' as hot dumb blonde in a bikini rofl.gif
09-23-2014, 12:53 AM #11
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(09-23-2014, 12:49 AM)Shadow Wrote:  
(09-23-2014, 12:44 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I'd say the same unrealistic expectations exist for men...sleeping beauty (hmmm) and all that.

Yes, excellent point, 'cept maybe not so much 'sleeping beauty' as hot dumb blonde in a bikini rofl.gif

Sure, let's say that, but with intellect sleeping and needing a rescurer.
09-23-2014, 11:03 PM #12
golden locks Member
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yes everyone should just let "love be blind", because it's supposed to be! forget all the pretty pictures , then you have a chance finding real beauty hug.gif
09-24-2014, 08:02 AM #13
blind prophet Member
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Soul mate?

Let me ask my wife.

"She believes that there are people who get along better than others, pretty much what a soul mate is."

Well how romantic dear.

No, it is bs.

If you are fortunate you will love the person you are with, treat each other well, and trust and grow.

Maybe build a family, or at least build a life together. Standing hand in hand facing or embracing the world together is all you really need.

I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
09-24-2014, 09:23 AM #14
golden locks Member
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I think we choose love. The "mate" part may or may not change but we can always have love by choosing to give it and receive it.
09-24-2014, 10:38 AM #15
Octo Mother Superior
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The soulmate thing is not BS I'm afraid. I've been fortunate to have them in my life. A soulmate to me is a person you have know over and over for many lifetimes, not necessarily as a couple. It was perfectly clear when I met JR that I knew him already, and I knew him really well. My logic self said wtf while my soul was overjoyed. Thankfully I trusted my soul and we were told it's our 193rd time around together in some form.



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