(06-06-2014, 01:10 AM)failboat Wrote:Yeah like not so long ago back in the late 1970s my mom was beat and abused continuously and the police who were called quite a few times actually refused to intervene and i was too young to do anything about it...(06-05-2014, 04:19 PM)Shadow Wrote: That vid is going to be with me all day
Yesterday a couple girlfriends stopped in, we met up while out walking and came to my house for ice tea. The youngest has a baby 8 months old. She's such a beautiful girl, in every way, but every time I see her she has a new bruise or fresh scar. The mother not the child.
have you ever asked her where she got those bruises and scars from?
so many people are in abusive relationships...
i think most of the world's problems result from abuse. the abused often turn into abusers. be the broken or the breaker.
if we ever want to live in a better world we have to do something about it - and i'm not talking about passive shït like building shelters for the abused... i'm talking about eradicating the root...
But i'm often suspect every time i hear a lady traumatically complaining about how terrible her husband was and how he beat her and so on and so on and so i ask "how long was he treating you that way" and they usually say "for years" like okay maybe in the past a woman didnt have any choices to turn to for help but nowadays there are so many and so these so called terrible men must have not been so bad when the women were making babies with them but only after the women booted them out the door to obtain a financial free ride through life did they become so bad in many cases?!
Lets face it some people like to use and abuse and some people like to be used and abused as foreplay and during sexx...
"Some of them want to use you,some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you,some of them want to be abused"