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Want to know how abuse or physical punishment affects the psyche of children? - Watch this
06-06-2014, 01:07 PM #16
Wicked Oblivion Member
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(06-06-2014, 01:10 AM)failboat Wrote:  
(06-05-2014, 04:19 PM)Shadow Wrote:  That vid is going to be with me all day sad2.gif

Yesterday a couple girlfriends stopped in, we met up while out walking and came to my house for ice tea. The youngest has a baby 8 months old. She's such a beautiful girl, in every way, but every time I see her she has a new bruise or fresh scar. The mother not the child. dunno.gif

have you ever asked her where she got those bruises and scars from?

so many people are in abusive relationships...

i think most of the world's problems result from abuse. the abused often turn into abusers. be the broken or the breaker.
if we ever want to live in a better world we have to do something about it - and i'm not talking about passive shït like building shelters for the abused... i'm talking about eradicating the root...
Yeah like not so long ago back in the late 1970s my mom was beat and abused continuously and the police who were called quite a few times actually refused to intervene and i was too young to do anything about it...

But i'm often suspect every time i hear a lady traumatically complaining about how terrible her husband was and how he beat her and so on and so on and so i ask "how long was he treating you that way" and they usually say "for years" like okay maybe in the past a woman didnt have any choices to turn to for help but nowadays there are so many and so these so called terrible men must have not been so bad when the women were making babies with them but only after the women booted them out the door to obtain a financial free ride through life did they become so bad in many cases?!

Lets face it some people like to use and abuse and some people like to be used and abused as foreplay and during sexx...

"Some of them want to use you,some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you,some of them want to be abused"

06-06-2014, 04:13 PM #17
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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(06-06-2014, 01:10 AM)failboat Wrote:  have you ever asked her where she got those bruises and scars from?

so many people are in abusive relationships...

i think most of the world's problems result from abuse. the abused often turn into abusers. be the broken or the breaker.
if we ever want to live in a better world we have to do something about it - and i'm not talking about passive shït like building shelters for the abused... i'm talking about eradicating the root...

She always explains them away, I've tried to tell her subtly that she can count on me. I have no proof she's being beaten but sometimes... you have a 6th sense about it. Her b/f put his ex-wife in the hospital quite a few times.
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06-07-2014, 12:03 AM #18
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(06-06-2014, 04:13 PM)Shadow Wrote:  
(06-06-2014, 01:10 AM)failboat Wrote:  have you ever asked her where she got those bruises and scars from?

so many people are in abusive relationships...

i think most of the world's problems result from abuse. the abused often turn into abusers. be the broken or the breaker.
if we ever want to live in a better world we have to do something about it - and i'm not talking about passive shït like building shelters for the abused... i'm talking about eradicating the root...

She always explains them away, I've tried to tell her subtly that she can count on me. I have no proof she's being beaten but sometimes... you have a 6th sense about it. Her b/f put his ex-wife in the hospital quite a few times.

abused women often think that the guy is going to change for good... especially when children are involved. but if she has an abusive man and you really told her subtly that she can count on you she's probably going to realize at some point that there is no way that he's going to change.
it would be a huge step if she - by herself - told you about any abuse. because based on that knowledge you could probably support her better.
it's a complex topic which gets more complex if you look at the individual cases - especially in terms of dangerous escalation.
but don't take any advice from me because i don't know her nor do i know anything about the support systems in your country so i wouldn't be a great help in this case - but you surely know someone who's working in the psychological field?
06-07-2014, 02:57 AM #19
Wicked Oblivion Member
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A fairly large percentage of the abused are actually men being abused by women and thats hushed up and further complicated by the stigma of men viewed as being only tough and whimps if they dare complain about it and all too often emotionally damaged people think hate is love and physical abuse if affection especially if thats all they knew and received from their parents as a child because barbarism begins at home...
06-07-2014, 11:32 PM #20
Kreeper Griobhtha
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It turns them into this:


I am not your rolling wheels, I am the highway
I am not your carpet ride I am the sky
I am not your blowing wind, I am the lightning
I am not your autumn moon, I am the night
The night
06-07-2014, 11:57 PM #21
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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(06-07-2014, 02:57 AM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  A fairly large percentage of the abused are actually men being abused by women

What would you call a 'large percentage'? 5? 50?
06-08-2014, 02:38 PM #22
Kreeper Griobhtha
Posts:10,599 Threads:635 Joined:Feb 2011
(06-06-2014, 01:07 PM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  
(06-06-2014, 01:10 AM)failboat Wrote:  
(06-05-2014, 04:19 PM)Shadow Wrote:  That vid is going to be with me all day sad2.gif

Yesterday a couple girlfriends stopped in, we met up while out walking and came to my house for ice tea. The youngest has a baby 8 months old. She's such a beautiful girl, in every way, but every time I see her she has a new bruise or fresh scar. The mother not the child. dunno.gif

have you ever asked her where she got those bruises and scars from?

so many people are in abusive relationships...

i think most of the world's problems result from abuse. the abused often turn into abusers. be the broken or the breaker.
if we ever want to live in a better world we have to do something about it - and i'm not talking about passive shït like building shelters for the abused... i'm talking about eradicating the root...
Yeah like not so long ago back in the late 1970s my mom was beat and abused continuously and the police who were called quite a few times actually refused to intervene and i was too young to do anything about it...

But i'm often suspect every time i hear a lady traumatically complaining about how terrible her husband was and how he beat her and so on and so on and so i ask "how long was he treating you that way" and they usually say "for years" like okay maybe in the past a woman didnt have any choices to turn to for help but nowadays there are so many and so these so called terrible men must have not been so bad when the women were making babies with them but only after the women booted them out the door to obtain a financial free ride through life did they become so bad in many cases?!

Lets face it some people like to use and abuse and some people like to be used and abused as foreplay and during sexx...

"Some of them want to use you,some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you,some of them want to be abused"

http://vimeo.com/63525719

My mom was in an abusive relationship back in the 70s too. I was about 6-7 years old and felt the same helplessness. I don't remember the police ever being called, but my grandfather's ball-peen hammer intervened.

cheers.gif

Don't mess with Texans or their ball-peen hammers.

lmao.gif

I am not your rolling wheels, I am the highway
I am not your carpet ride I am the sky
I am not your blowing wind, I am the lightning
I am not your autumn moon, I am the night
The night
06-08-2014, 03:11 PM #23
Kreeper Griobhtha
Posts:10,599 Threads:635 Joined:Feb 2011

I am not your rolling wheels, I am the highway
I am not your carpet ride I am the sky
I am not your blowing wind, I am the lightning
I am not your autumn moon, I am the night
The night
06-08-2014, 03:41 PM #24
Kreeper Griobhtha
Posts:10,599 Threads:635 Joined:Feb 2011
This guy was from near where I live now. I work with some guys that knew him and confirm he was one messed up dude.


I am not your rolling wheels, I am the highway
I am not your carpet ride I am the sky
I am not your blowing wind, I am the lightning
I am not your autumn moon, I am the night
The night
06-08-2014, 04:05 PM #25
blind prophet Member
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It's not related to abuse, but sort of related trauma wise.

My daughter fell out from a window, the screen is easy to press out, I had just told my kids to stop playing with the window. Before I could leave the room she fell.

She was ok, but incredibly scared, she is not even 3 yet.

Almost daily she brings up "fell out the window" and angels.

I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly
The wise man’s eyes are in his head,
But the fool walks in darkness.
Yet I myself perceived
That the same event happens to them all.
06-08-2014, 04:24 PM #26
Octo Mother Superior
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Oh wow! damned.gif



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