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"Woman Begins By Resisting A Mans Advances And Ends By Blocking His Retreat"
06-17-2013, 04:32 PM #1
Ruby Wolf Member
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Oscar Wilde - 1854-1900

One of my favorite famous quotes...

Perceptively revealing how so many women think about and approach relationships with men...

And for most women...

So very true...

Especially during Oscar Wildes era...

And even now...

Meaning a woman instinctively? builds an emotional wall and plays hard to get...

In the beginning of a relationship...

But if she falls in love with that man...

And he wants to leave her...

She'll do anything to try and make him stay...

Surely many men have lived that and would certainly agree...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oscar_Wilde

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06-17-2013, 04:55 PM #2
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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You really had to reach far back in time to find one instance to make a point. wtf2.gif
06-17-2013, 05:09 PM #3
Ruby Wolf Member
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(06-17-2013, 04:55 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  You really had to reach far back in time to find one instance to make a point. wtf2.gif

Well theres around 7,000,000,000 people...

So theres about 3,500,000,000 women...

And my point is how a hundred plus year old quote about women...

Is still relevant and true today...

Just about every girl I've ever been with...

Started by resisting my advances...

Like thats always been some sort of instinctive female reaction to men or something...

In the beginning...

But then they would do "anything" to keep me if and when I wanted to leave them...

Near the end...
06-17-2013, 05:23 PM #4
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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What do you mean by 'your advances'? At which point in the courtship do you put into play 'your advances'?

Why are you dismissing any of these women being shy and reserved?
06-17-2013, 06:05 PM #5
Ruby Wolf Member
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"But dont forget that loves a game and it can always come again"

06-17-2013, 06:16 PM #6
Ruby Wolf Member
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"Games people play,night or day they're just not matching

What they should do,keeps me feeling blue

Been down too long,right wrong,i just cant stop it

Spending all day,thinking just of you"

06-17-2013, 06:25 PM #7
Ruby Wolf Member
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"Many a tear has to fall...but its all...in the game"

06-17-2013, 06:28 PM #8
Ruby Wolf Member
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(06-17-2013, 05:23 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  What do you mean by 'your advances'? At which point in the courtship do you put into play 'your advances'?

Why are you dismissing any of these women being shy and reserved?

His quote says it all...

I was just expanding on it...

Because he doesnt clarify "what" hes talking about...

Meaning "relationships"...

I mean like this...

If I show interest and express attraction towards a woman...

She'll repel away from me...

But if I act like I dont like her and am not interested...

She'll attract towards me...

And exactly there are the emotional differences between men and woman...

One is from mars and the other from venus...

Thats whats going on with male and female relationships...

Thats what happens between men and woman...

Almost every time...

"Your pride has built a wall so strong that I cant get through"


06-17-2013, 06:29 PM #9
Octo Mother Superior
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Could also be that some women want what they can't have. If they can have it they don't want it? dunno.gif
06-17-2013, 06:34 PM #10
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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If you do a little searching around the net you'll notice both genders have problems understanding dating. It's a big deal committing one's life to someone and being scared factors into it. Anyway, here's an interesting read from Venus.

http://www.today.com/id/35461729/ns/toda...-men-play/

BTW, I didn't play hard to get with my hubby, rather he played hard to get (or was very cautious) from his past bad experiences - but I managed to convince him with patience, love and trust even though I too had past bad experiences.
06-17-2013, 06:45 PM #11
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(06-17-2013, 06:29 PM)Octo Wrote:  Could also be that some women want what they can't have. If they can have it they don't want it? dunno.gif

Well to explain it as simply and as easy to understand as I can...

Even though I might be skating on thin ice from a womans perspective by saying this truth...

In the vast majority of relationships between men and women...

Women control the sex...

They decide where and when sex will happen...

And so ultimately women are in control of most relationships...

Like trains running down the tracks...

Women are the engines and men are the passenger cars...

And if and when a man trys to assume control...

That relationship train will quickly derail...
06-17-2013, 06:47 PM #12
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(06-17-2013, 06:45 PM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  
(06-17-2013, 06:29 PM)Octo Wrote:  Could also be that some women want what they can't have. If they can have it they don't want it? dunno.gif

Well to explain it as simply and as easy to understand as I can...

Even though I might be skating on thin ice from a womans perspective by saying this truth...

In the vast majority of relationships between...

Women control the sex...

They decide where and when sex will happen...

And so ultimately women are in control of most relationships...

Like trains running down the tracks...

Women are the engines and men are the passenger cars...

And if and when a man trys to assume control...

The train will quickly derail...


That is true only if the relationship is solely based upon sex. However, the woman (let's say a mistress in love with her married man) if really deeply in love and is promised future commitment will have no power in the bedroom at all.

So, Beyond, do you make sexual advances too early?
06-17-2013, 07:13 PM #13
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If you understand that Oscar was Gay

then read his statements on women

then you understand that

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06-17-2013, 07:14 PM #14
Ruby Wolf Member
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These emotionally oh so true lyrics from a womans perspective were written by a man...

"I am a woman in love and i'd do anything

To get you into my world and hold you within...

Its a right I defend over and over again"

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06-17-2013, 07:22 PM #15
JollyRoger Incognito Anonymous
 
No, it's simply that women feel like they have the control because they have the hoo hoo. When the hoo hoo doesn't matter anymore, it pisses them off because they have lost their control.

Rejection sets in and then they get evil.




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