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"Woman Begins By Resisting A Mans Advances And Ends By Blocking His Retreat"
06-17-2013, 07:25 PM #16
Octo Mother Superior
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I have to admit I don't understand women. chuckle.gif
06-17-2013, 07:27 PM #17
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(06-17-2013, 07:13 PM)Cynicalabsurdance Wrote:  If you understand that Oscar was Gay

then read his statements on women

then you understand that

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oscar was Gay lmao.gif


Ah, the woman bashing comes from all sides. If you don't understand something or someone, bash it.

Gay, indeed.

Hey Rog, will you tell us stories of women who played hard to get with you - if any?
06-17-2013, 07:57 PM #18
Cynicalabsurdance Member
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HA ! rofl.gif


The Wisdom of Solomon

Nor the Man From mars

Nor the woman from Venus

can ever have a concise understanding

of Relationships .

Although relationships can be very easy to work out


the mind will focus on the question too much

and in testing theories , it will by rote ,,, complicate matters with
over zealous attempts to understand relationships .

Truthful communication between each other
can be helpful

but when ,,,

well , deep feelings bring a protection mode

and ,,,,

by that ,,,,


we hold back , feeling it not a good thing to be too open .

So , granting a fail safe is inherent in the make up of the human ,,,

One may consider that dealing with one's inner workings first


opens you to becoming free of the fear to love .

and ,,,

Love is the child of freedom

free yourself from you own bondage first

so your love feels safe to grow and let be .


make sense ?

it works
06-17-2013, 08:04 PM #19
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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Beautifully written. thumbsup.gif
06-17-2013, 08:10 PM #20
Ruby Wolf Member
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(06-17-2013, 07:25 PM)Octo Wrote:  I have to admit I don't understand women. chuckle.gif

Truthful words from the mouth of a very perceptive and very honest female...

Thank you! (*-*)
06-17-2013, 08:16 PM #21
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(06-17-2013, 08:10 PM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  
(06-17-2013, 07:25 PM)Octo Wrote:  I have to admit I don't understand women. chuckle.gif

Truthful words from the mouth of a very perceptive and very honest female...

Thank you! (*-*)


My words are also perceptive and true, but I do understand most women and endeavour to understand men and women, unlike some people.
06-17-2013, 08:18 PM #22
Ruby Wolf Member
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(06-17-2013, 06:47 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(06-17-2013, 06:45 PM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  
(06-17-2013, 06:29 PM)Octo Wrote:  Could also be that some women want what they can't have. If they can have it they don't want it? dunno.gif

That is true only if the relationship is solely based upon sex. However, the woman (let's say a mistress in love with her married man) if really deeply in love and is promised future commitment will have no power in the bedroom at all.

So, Beyond, do you make sexual advances too early?

Would any guy from the ages of say around 18 to 60 stay in a relationship without any sex?

99.999% of the time...No way...

Unless of course the guy was getting only money from the girl...

Then he would act like he cares about her...

While getting sex from someone else...

Just like many women do the same...

I'm usually not able to make sexual advances too early...

I usually get jumped and ravished before i'm able to (*-*)

And so more often than not...

Men "act" love to get sex and Women "act" sex to get love...

Because women usually control the wheres and whens of sex...

And women can get laid for free just about whenever and wherever they want...

And men cannot do that unless they buy it...

Men and women do not think about sex in the same ways...
06-17-2013, 08:20 PM #23
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(06-17-2013, 08:18 PM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  
(06-17-2013, 06:47 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(06-17-2013, 06:45 PM)Beyond Smolensk Wrote:  
(06-17-2013, 06:29 PM)Octo Wrote:  Could also be that some women want what they can't have. If they can have it they don't want it? dunno.gif

That is true only if the relationship is solely based upon sex. However, the woman (let's say a mistress in love with her married man) if really deeply in love and is promised future commitment will have no power in the bedroom at all.

So, Beyond, do you make sexual advances too early?

Would any guy from the ages of say from around 18 to 60 stay in a relationship without any sex?

99.999% of the time...No way...

Unless of course the guy was getting only money from the girl...

Then he would act like he cares about her...

While getting sex from someone else...

I'm usually not able to make sexual advances too early...

I usually get jumped and ravished before i'm able to (*-*)

And so usually more often than not...

Men "act" love to get sex and Women "act" sex to get love...

Because women usually control the where and when of sex...

And women can get laid just about whenever and wherever they want...

And men cannot unless they buy it...

Men and women do not think about sex in the same ways...


I see the focus is solely upon sex...not good kindling to keep the love fires burning.

http://www.connectingsingles.com/article...on-sex.htm A good read.
06-17-2013, 08:40 PM #24
Ruby Wolf Member
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Rock On !!!

"Seems to me,you dont wanna talk about it

Seems to me,you just turn your pretty head and walk away"

06-18-2013, 02:49 AM #25
White Ribbon call me
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oscar wilde was so camp,its not funny.. what the ğck would he know about women resisting a mans advances? he would have been resisting womens advances his whole life probably..

bad choice of quote..
06-18-2013, 06:30 PM #26
Cynicalabsurdance Member
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Unique asked ::::

quote : " Hey Rog, will you tell us stories of women who played hard to get with you - if any? "


HA !

I pointed out that if you act non-interested , a woman will get interested in you .
( I could state why that is , but easy to figure out )

remember ?

real simple is , " Playing hard to get " is PLAYING

if i was being played or if a woman acted not interested , I wouldn't bother
myself with them .

Too many were interested in me , for me to bother with playing games
with a person .


here is one story

at a club one night
a lady was watching me

finally after 20 or 30 times of making eye contact from 20 feet away and i made no move
from where i stood ,,,

she came over to me and stood next to me, I would not even look in her direction .

she then asked me a question
then i paid attention

we walk out of the club

i walk her to her car
never ask her for a number

next , we see each other at the same club the next weekend

again she hangs with me
again i walk her out afterwards

she hands me her number

I throw it away

after a month of her approach , we are walking out one night
holding hands

she stops and says : " Rog' , I hope you understand that anything between us
will have to remain platonic "

I replied : " Ok, that's cool "

she went bat crap crazy

WHAT !
WHY DO YOU WALK ME OUT , AND WHY DO YOU,,,

so on and so on

I calm her down
then say : I just leave open to you to make a choice of what you want of us to be is all ,

You stated that , and that's fine "


POINT : never test the Rog' , either be real , or back off


Sometimes a womans inner child plays games that I don't understand ,
rather than pursue any game ,,,
better to walk , someone somewhere at sometime , will be real with me
and they are everywhere ,,,
why bother with being played ?

Understand, Women found me very attractive

pursue ?

hard to get ?

The one's who were interested and played hard to get
never got getted by me chuckle.gif

I had no need to get them , too many wanted to get me , and they played no games
about it .

Ego ?

Nope just honestly the way it was .
06-18-2013, 07:05 PM #27
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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I see where many men don't put in the effort, patience, and emotional bonding required for a long-term relationship.

If some men and women feel sex is the most important thing between two people, then make it clear up front, so the other person won't expect too much of anything else.
06-18-2013, 07:16 PM #28
Octo Mother Superior
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(06-17-2013, 07:57 PM)Cynicalabsurdance Wrote:  One may consider that dealing with one's inner workings first


opens you to becoming free of the fear to love .

and ,,,

Love is the child of freedom

free yourself from you own bondage first

so your love feels safe to grow and let be .


make sense ?

it works


It totally makes sense. It's how I feel about it too.
06-18-2013, 09:00 PM #29
Cynicalabsurdance Member
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(06-18-2013, 07:05 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I see where many men don't put in the effort, patience, and emotional bonding required for a long-term relationship.

If some men and women feel sex is the most important thing between two people, then make it clear up front, so the other person won't expect too much of anything else.


Exactly , never be devious , always point blank delivery of one's own desire to the person
they desire this with .

Case in point

Amy had a questionnaire for me

she would ask something as this : Do you think you'll ever want to settle down
get married and have children .

I gave direct truthful answers and she gave direct truthful statements as to
what she desired .

In doing so , we became no harm to each other by leading the other
into expecting of the other what we would not engage .


It was plain , I had a very firm stance on remaining single and childless .

She desired to one day be married and have children .


from the moment she decided she wanted to be involved with me

she decided as well , to inquire of me my views on an LTR with her , and as well
reveal her's to me .

Amy was perhaps the most real PERSON i have ever met in life .

she waited for me to ask her out for a long time

when i wouldn't ,
she thought i was not interested .

Mutual friend told her that i said i had a crush on her .

THEN ,,, she asked me why i did not ask her out

what i answered was pretty interesting

because if a woman is interested in me, they'll make the approach ,
if not , it doesn't happen ,,
i don't chase , because it is invasive , besides , the woman makes the choice anyway ,
so i leave it to them to take up the lead in .

Know what ?

for what it's worth , it works best that way for us .

06-18-2013, 09:32 PM #30
Ruby Wolf Member
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(06-18-2013, 02:49 AM)the white ribbon Wrote:  oscar wilde was so camp,its not funny.. what the fu*k would he know about women resisting a mans advances? he would have been resisting womens advances his whole life probably..

bad choice of quote..

A guy whos gay or bi or straight doesnt have to f##k a women to see and hear and notice and realize how most of them are and how most of them act...

Most women fashion a new mask they wear for every guy they meet like emotionally disturbed chameleons...

I know a lady who was dating (f###ing) a lawyer and she started dressing like a business woman and acting like she was one for him...

Then she was dating (f###ing) a biker dude and suddenly she started dressing and acting like a biker chick for him...

After him she was dating (f###ing) a super jock and she started dressing in baseball and football shirts and talking about sports all the time for him...

She was never interested in sports or motorcycles or the law before...

As well as the bizarre and bewildering fact that her hair went from being naturally brown to being dyed black and then dyed blonde back and forth again and again throughout those loveless sybilish escapades...

I mean come on! wtf?! who is she?! what is she?! does she even know which one of her split personalities is the dominant person?!

Most likely shes just an actress saying and doing what she thinks the men (money) in her life want to hear and see,but thats not what shes really thinking and thats not what shes really scheming to do...

And yeah the biker dude had money because he was a big time local drug dealer...

If I could I would award her with an academy award for best supporting actress in failed from the start relationships...



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