(05-13-2017, 05:41 PM)JayRodney Wrote: I had a dream of Octo when I was quite young, I was 16 at the time and dreamed we were sitting on a beach together getting a little crazy with the cheeze whiz *ahem*, only thing is she looked like she did when we first met, which put her a few years ahead of me at the time.
Well, my life went by and sadly, I never found her.
We both ended up with significant others, had kids, the usual.
We started talking on GLP and we both began to realize that we both responded to a myriad of things pretty much verbatim like one another... like we had the same ideas and responses and the same strange sense of humor.
We both obviously noticed it.
It was hard to ignore.
I had the biggest secret crush on her and I wasn't about to say anything, I certainly didn't go to GLP looking for anything like that FFS, it's like the last place on earth for that type of thing.
It was complicated.
At any rate there was this thread, post your pic or something along those lines, I was looking at it at low and behold saw a pic of the woman I had dreamed of some years before... a dead ringer, I knew it was her, and then my heart sunk when I found out it was Octo because I knew she was in a long term relationship.
Even stranger we'd already been talking on PM's behind the scenes I had already fallen head over heels for her, but wasn't about to EVER say anything.
One thing lead to another and gawd damn me, after a couple months I spilled the beans and told her the deal.
Three months later we spent a week in Amsterdam, and a few months after that we were married and I had moved to Finland from Florida.
how long has it been now married?
for me, i feel like i was meant to be with him.
im calm, and feel satisfied inside,not like there might be something better out there...
we have heard a few people say they wish they had a relationship like ours.
its a great compliment but what do you SAY to that??
truly we are best friends before being spouses.
hes my friend first and foremost.
and we treat friends differently than our mates.