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01-03-2014, 10:02 PM #46
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Aren't the Fins like the Swedes, Furry bikinis in the snow? What kinda country you running there?

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01-03-2014, 10:34 PM #47
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(01-03-2014, 09:58 PM)Octo Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 09:11 PM)NODOOM Wrote:  Your doing it again Octo. Enough with the teasing already bleh.gif chuckle.gif

Teasing? Do you want me to tell you what Finnish winter underwear looks like? I don't think so. lmao.gif

I hope not like these

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01-03-2014, 11:06 PM #48
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(01-03-2014, 09:52 PM)Wayne5 Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 01:08 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I'm a little late for this, but what the heck and I stayed up way past midnight.

My friend at work, who is also married 30+ years as I am, came into my office yesterday spilling the beans as to her long-term marital problems. She told me that she is close to walking out the door. To my surprise some of their issues are the same as my and hubby's issues. One parent enabling an adult child to continue being irresponsible, getting on each others' nerves after living together for so long, difficulty accepting changed philosophies or outside interests, etc.

After much discussion and reflection, we both agreed that most of the arguments are about our adult childrens' (her two daughters and my son/daughter still live at home) lack of responsibility and subsequent financial burdens put upon us, as well as maybe favoritism, etc. Who is enabling who? Are adult children these days more immature (certainly moreso than we were growing up) or is it due to the economy? These are some of the questions we bandied about.

Anyway, she is going to approach her hubby from a different stance this time as to what may be the root cause of their discord. It's quite a complex issue.

Ultimately, the 100% effort from both parties is a must - every day.

The young people of today got a raw deal because of the economy. Take a deep breath and endure the inconvenience. Tough love is total BS, it just leads to regrets. They will find their place eventually. Focus on hubby.

Remember, people fight over money, sex , and children. Ignore the children, forget about the money, and concentrate on sex. The more your children hear you having sex the faster they will move out.

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I'd love to concentrate only on sex and be free to roam around nude like Octo & JR, but getting it on isn't the be all and end all in a relationship for me, especially after 30 years of marriage. I think we both need a new lease on life, new adventures, and new outlooks, which will come when our kids finally move out. Hopefully, that flickering spark will turn into a roaring flame again with more privacy, excitement and romance.
01-03-2014, 11:11 PM #49
Octo Mother Superior
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(01-03-2014, 10:02 PM)Wayne5 Wrote:  Aren't the Fins like the Swedes, Furry bikinis in the snow? What kinda country you running there?

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That would be a really offensive thing to say in Finland. Unless you want a punch in the face that is damned.gif

And it's Finns with 2 n's. FINNS! spank.gif
01-03-2014, 11:55 PM #50
Wayne5 Member
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(01-03-2014, 11:11 PM)Octo Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 10:02 PM)Wayne5 Wrote:  Aren't the Fins like the Swedes, Furry bikinis in the snow? What kinda country you running there?

coffeetime.gif

shocked.gif

That would be a really offensive thing to say in Finland. Unless you want a punch in the face that is damned.gif

And it's Finns with 2 n's. FINNS! spank.gif

I knew that when I wrote it "mistress octo" ouch...ouch...I'll never do it again...till next time.
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01-04-2014, 12:12 AM #51
Wayne5 Member
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UniqueStranger said:

I'd love to concentrate only on sex and be free to roam around nude like Octo & JR, but getting it on isn't the be all and end all in a relationship for me, especially after 30 years of marriage. I think we both need a new lease on life, new adventures, and new outlooks, which will come when our kids finally move out. Hopefully, that flickering spark will turn into a roaring flame again with more privacy, excitement and romance.

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I won't belabor the point. But consider this. If you have been married 30 years (I'm going on 38) you are a lot closer, than you think, to the point where one of you will stop having sex all together. God did not promise you tomorrow. You have to find a way to keep the flame going today.

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01-04-2014, 12:14 AM #52
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(01-03-2014, 11:06 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 09:52 PM)Wayne5 Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 01:08 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I'm a little late for this, but what the heck and I stayed up way past midnight.

My friend at work, who is also married 30+ years as I am, came into my office yesterday spilling the beans as to her long-term marital problems. She told me that she is close to walking out the door. To my surprise some of their issues are the same as my and hubby's issues. One parent enabling an adult child to continue being irresponsible, getting on each others' nerves after living together for so long, difficulty accepting changed philosophies or outside interests, etc.

After much discussion and reflection, we both agreed that most of the arguments are about our adult childrens' (her two daughters and my son/daughter still live at home) lack of responsibility and subsequent financial burdens put upon us, as well as maybe favoritism, etc. Who is enabling who? Are adult children these days more immature (certainly moreso than we were growing up) or is it due to the economy? These are some of the questions we bandied about.

Anyway, she is going to approach her hubby from a different stance this time as to what may be the root cause of their discord. It's quite a complex issue.

Ultimately, the 100% effort from both parties is a must - every day.

The young people of today got a raw deal because of the economy. Take a deep breath and endure the inconvenience. Tough love is total BS, it just leads to regrets. They will find their place eventually. Focus on hubby.

Remember, people fight over money, sex , and children. Ignore the children, forget about the money, and concentrate on sex. The more your children hear you having sex the faster they will move out.

coffeetime.gif

I'd love to concentrate only on sex and be free to roam around nude like Octo & JR, but getting it on isn't the be all and end all in a relationship for me, especially after 30 years of marriage. I think we both need a new lease on life, new adventures, and new outlooks, which will come when our kids finally move out. Hopefully, that flickering spark will turn into a roaring flame again with more privacy, excitement and romance.

shocked.giffacepalm_panda.gif

I hope you have fun and enjoy US hug.gif

Now don't forget pictures and video or it didn't happen chuckle.gif

Life is like a penny, you can spend it on what you like, but you can ONLY spend it once.


https://twitter.com/NigelLondon2014

01-04-2014, 12:22 AM #53
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
Posts:15,049 Threads:428 Joined:Jun 2012
(01-04-2014, 12:14 AM)NODOOM Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 11:06 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 09:52 PM)Wayne5 Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 01:08 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I'm a little late for this, but what the heck and I stayed up way past midnight.

My friend at work, who is also married 30+ years as I am, came into my office yesterday spilling the beans as to her long-term marital problems. She told me that she is close to walking out the door. To my surprise some of their issues are the same as my and hubby's issues. One parent enabling an adult child to continue being irresponsible, getting on each others' nerves after living together for so long, difficulty accepting changed philosophies or outside interests, etc.

After much discussion and reflection, we both agreed that most of the arguments are about our adult childrens' (her two daughters and my son/daughter still live at home) lack of responsibility and subsequent financial burdens put upon us, as well as maybe favoritism, etc. Who is enabling who? Are adult children these days more immature (certainly moreso than we were growing up) or is it due to the economy? These are some of the questions we bandied about.

Anyway, she is going to approach her hubby from a different stance this time as to what may be the root cause of their discord. It's quite a complex issue.

Ultimately, the 100% effort from both parties is a must - every day.

The young people of today got a raw deal because of the economy. Take a deep breath and endure the inconvenience. Tough love is total BS, it just leads to regrets. They will find their place eventually. Focus on hubby.

Remember, people fight over money, sex , and children. Ignore the children, forget about the money, and concentrate on sex. The more your children hear you having sex the faster they will move out.

coffeetime.gif

I'd love to concentrate only on sex and be free to roam around nude like Octo & JR, but getting it on isn't the be all and end all in a relationship for me, especially after 30 years of marriage. I think we both need a new lease on life, new adventures, and new outlooks, which will come when our kids finally move out. Hopefully, that flickering spark will turn into a roaring flame again with more privacy, excitement and romance.

shocked.giffacepalm_panda.gif

I hope you have fun and enjoy US hug.gif

Now don't forget pictures and video or it didn't happen chuckle.gif

Sometimes when it actually happens it feels like it didn't happen. blink.gif

facepalm_panda.gif

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01-04-2014, 12:32 AM #54
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Posts:5,013 Threads:522 Joined:Sep 2012
(01-04-2014, 12:22 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(01-04-2014, 12:14 AM)NODOOM Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 11:06 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 09:52 PM)Wayne5 Wrote:  
(01-03-2014, 01:08 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  I'm a little late for this, but what the heck and I stayed up way past midnight.

My friend at work, who is also married 30+ years as I am, came into my office yesterday spilling the beans as to her long-term marital problems. She told me that she is close to walking out the door. To my surprise some of their issues are the same as my and hubby's issues. One parent enabling an adult child to continue being irresponsible, getting on each others' nerves after living together for so long, difficulty accepting changed philosophies or outside interests, etc.

After much discussion and reflection, we both agreed that most of the arguments are about our adult childrens' (her two daughters and my son/daughter still live at home) lack of responsibility and subsequent financial burdens put upon us, as well as maybe favoritism, etc. Who is enabling who? Are adult children these days more immature (certainly moreso than we were growing up) or is it due to the economy? These are some of the questions we bandied about.

Anyway, she is going to approach her hubby from a different stance this time as to what may be the root cause of their discord. It's quite a complex issue.

Ultimately, the 100% effort from both parties is a must - every day.

The young people of today got a raw deal because of the economy. Take a deep breath and endure the inconvenience. Tough love is total BS, it just leads to regrets. They will find their place eventually. Focus on hubby.

Remember, people fight over money, sex , and children. Ignore the children, forget about the money, and concentrate on sex. The more your children hear you having sex the faster they will move out.

coffeetime.gif

I'd love to concentrate only on sex and be free to roam around nude like Octo & JR, but getting it on isn't the be all and end all in a relationship for me, especially after 30 years of marriage. I think we both need a new lease on life, new adventures, and new outlooks, which will come when our kids finally move out. Hopefully, that flickering spark will turn into a roaring flame again with more privacy, excitement and romance.

shocked.giffacepalm_panda.gif

I hope you have fun and enjoy US hug.gif

Now don't forget pictures and video or it didn't happen chuckle.gif

Sometimes when it actually happens it feels like it didn't happen. blink.gif

facepalm_panda.gif

hug.gif chuckle.gif

I hope Whaler does not read this post! 13.gifchuckle.gif

Life is like a penny, you can spend it on what you like, but you can ONLY spend it once.


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01-04-2014, 12:37 AM #55
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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Why shouldn't whaler read that last post? What do you know about Whaler that I don't?

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01-04-2014, 12:45 AM #56
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(01-04-2014, 12:37 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  Why shouldn't whaler read that last post? What do you know about Whaler that I don't?

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Life is like a penny, you can spend it on what you like, but you can ONLY spend it once.


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01-04-2014, 04:32 AM #57
Shadow Mrs. Buckwheat
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(01-04-2014, 12:45 AM)NODOOM Wrote:  
(01-04-2014, 12:37 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  Why shouldn't whaler read that last post? What do you know about Whaler that I don't?

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Tread lightly Nodoom popcorn2.gif
01-04-2014, 09:23 AM #58
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(01-02-2014, 09:41 AM)Wayne5 Wrote:  
(01-02-2014, 09:10 AM)Below Average Genius Wrote:  Wayne, your story was really really enjoyable to read.

Lately, my attention span has been close to zero, but you expressed yourself in such a way that it was easy to read kept me reading to the very end.

Bravo!

Gee, I am blown away by your remarks. Thank you BAG.
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beercheer.gif The good is on you for writing such a great article.

Pray for me. hug.gif



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