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05-14-2013, 01:25 AM #31
j browsing Member
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your story about you and your girlfriend had no bearing and about how men were more abused you just love to bait and as far as last resort.. violence is violence..like i said before you asked a question and i answered it now move on 13.gif

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05-14-2013, 01:31 AM #32
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(05-14-2013, 01:25 AM)j browsing Wrote:  your story about you and your girlfriend had no bearing and about how men were more abused you just love to bait and as far as last resort.. violence is violence..like i said before you asked a question and i answered it now move on 13.gif


The incident where I was arrested had direct bearing on the topic. It is an instance when I did use physical force against my domestic partner, and I believe that force was necessary.

As far as men being more abused, that is a fact. But use of physical force is not necessarily synonymous with abuse. Spanking a child who is having a temper trantrum is not abuse, for example.
05-14-2013, 01:34 AM #33
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(05-14-2013, 12:09 AM)Jackinthebox Wrote:  
(05-13-2013, 06:37 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  BTW, violence against women is ever increasing for all women of all religions and races.

Bullshit. Men are more likely to be abused by women in a domestic relationship, and that trend is increasing.


It's not BS, because violence against women is increasing at alarming rates around the world. Maybe the increase in violence against men are women trying to fight back.
05-14-2013, 01:37 AM #34
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like i said move on 13.gif

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05-14-2013, 01:40 AM #35
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(05-14-2013, 01:34 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(05-14-2013, 12:09 AM)Jackinthebox Wrote:  
(05-13-2013, 06:37 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  BTW, violence against women is ever increasing for all women of all religions and races.

Bullshit. Men are more likely to be abused by women in a domestic relationship, and that trend is increasing.


It's not BS, because violence against women is increasing at alarming rates around the world. Maybe the increase in violence against men are women trying to fight back.


Women trying to fight back? So there is an "excuse" for violence them hmmmm?

I don't know about the around the world nonsense. Around the world are many different cultures and beliefs, and many different reasons for different dynamics in interpersonal relationships. But here in America, women are more violent than men. That is not "fighting" back when women are the perpetrators of the violence.

05-14-2013, 01:42 AM #36
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(05-14-2013, 01:40 AM)Jackinthebox Wrote:  
(05-14-2013, 01:34 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  
(05-14-2013, 12:09 AM)Jackinthebox Wrote:  
(05-13-2013, 06:37 PM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  BTW, violence against women is ever increasing for all women of all religions and races.

Bullshit. Men are more likely to be abused by women in a domestic relationship, and that trend is increasing.


It's not BS, because violence against women is increasing at alarming rates around the world. Maybe the increase in violence against men are women trying to fight back.


Women trying to fight back? So there is an "excuse" for violence them hmmmm?

I don't know about the around the world nonsense. Around the world are many different cultures and beliefs, and many different reasons for different dynamics in interpersonal relationships. But here in America, women are more violent than men. That is not "fighting" back when women are the perpetrators of the violence.


Can you post a couple of studies and stats that prove this? And I'd like to introduce you to a thought that has eluded you....self defense.
05-14-2013, 01:43 AM #37
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(05-14-2013, 01:37 AM)j browsing Wrote:  like i said move on 13.gif


I am not knocking you for what you said. It's not like you were lieing about what you went through. I just think it's an apples and oranges comparison. A man who uses physical dominance in his home and/or relationship is not necessarily a killer, or even an abuser.

Again, it's like with children too. Just because a parent spanks their kid on occasion does not make them a child abuser. There is a difference between use of force, and abuse.
05-14-2013, 01:45 AM #38
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(05-14-2013, 01:42 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  Can you post a couple of studies and stats that prove this?

Yes.

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05-14-2013, 01:46 AM #39
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(05-14-2013, 01:42 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  Can you post a couple of studies and stats that prove this? And I'd like to introduce you to a thought that has eluded you....self defense.

It's not self defense if you are the one perpetrating the violence.
05-14-2013, 01:47 AM #40
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jack you don't understand..my ex husband was locked away for attempted murder he was dangerous and he was diagnosed as pyschotic i will not go into alot of it but it took me many years to trust anyone again this is why i have such empathy for anyone who is abused be it woman or man or child

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05-14-2013, 01:51 AM #41
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(05-14-2013, 01:47 AM)j browsing Wrote:  jack you don't understand..my ex husband was locked away for attempted murder he was dangerous and he was diagnosed as pyschotic i will not go into alot of it but it took me many years to trust anyone again this is why i have such empathy for anyone who is abused be it woman or man or child


No, actually I do understand. You were clearly in a very bad situation. But not every household is like that. And not every man who hits his wife is a murderer or even an abuser.

05-14-2013, 01:52 AM #42
UniqueStranger Art in my heart
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(05-14-2013, 01:46 AM)Jackinthebox Wrote:  
(05-14-2013, 01:42 AM)UniqueStranger Wrote:  Can you post a couple of studies and stats that prove this? And I'd like to introduce you to a thought that has eluded you....self defense.

It's not self defense if you are the one perpetrating the violence.


Of course not, but the you missed my point. If we are to believe that violence against women is increasing substantially everywhere, and if we assume more women are trying to protect themselves using violence to stop their attacker, then of course the stats of violence against men will increase too. When the cops arrive both parties will shows signs of violence, then it's he says, she says.
05-14-2013, 01:53 AM #43
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i don't like hitting i see no reason for it unless for self defense

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05-14-2013, 01:55 AM #44
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I have a Religion

it states : IF YOU HIT A WOMAN IN FRONT OF ME
YOU JUST COMMITTED SUICIDE mofo .

My Mother was Beat often by her first Husband

He Rots in a Grave I shït on every time I pass by it .
05-14-2013, 01:56 AM #45
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(05-14-2013, 01:55 AM)Cynicalabsurdance Wrote:  I have a Religion

it states : IF YOU HIT A WOMAN IN FRONT OF ME
YOU JUST COMMITTED SUICIDE mofo .

My Mother was Beat often by her first Husband

He Rots in a Grave I shït on every time I pass by it .
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