(05-14-2013, 09:57 PM)j browsing Wrote: women abuse their kids and get away with it..NO not in the times which we live..teachers other relatives neighbors report child abuse and the women does get arrested BIG BROTHER IS WATCHING in the schools especially for signs of child abuse and will not hesitate to call DCS
Don't forget, I am a first-responder, I know how the system works, I have seen the cases, I have written the paperwork Sadly enough, I have seen more instances of FAMILIES being harassed and broken up on the slightest accusation of abuse, when the father was still a part of the family.
When it is a single mother, most complaints fall on deaf ears, EVEN when there are allegations of sexual abuse by the mother's new boyfriend, and other strong evidence to show abuse and neglect.
If a man tries to get custody of their children, it is impossible, except in these instances of terrible abuse and neglect. And even in those cases, it often takes years.
I have seen this on a personal level too, with two very good friends of mine, who now have custody of their children. One of the fathers is STILL REQUIRED TO PAY SUPPORT even though he has full custody, and the mother still gets foodstamps for the child who does not even live with her any more. That woman also has several other children by different men and lives with a convicted child molester. And to look at her you would never imagine the sort of person she is. Outwardly, she is a textbook white middle class Mom.